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DApart from Filing complaint and calling 1034, report it to Meta support people amd then close all her social media accounts and get off of the toxic social media cycle and let her focus on studies. Don’t get back on social media for a long long time. You need to understand that person is able to harass her becaz she is still using social media. This social media is ruining so many youngsters and they act like they will die without it, very sad….DAlso, if you are ever planning to teach this as a course and also mentor people, let me know, I might be interested…I am a senior techie as well but not in the Infosec field …DOMG, you are awesome 👍 kudos.
I suggest you make it into a formal process and start advertising privately for investigation help for people suffering from cyber crime.
I am sure many people would be grateful for this kind of service and there could be huge demand for this in future. I think there are already firms offering such services.
You can probably fix some approx fees for your services.
If I come across any potential clients, can I refer them to you?
Also, can you make this into a short online course and teach it?
DI think you may have misread his post, he said she will face problems there because she belongs to a minority community (and not a muslim). In Syria, the minorities are Christians, Druzes, Jews etc .. they are treated badly there…no safety for them.DOr alternatively fly to Jordan (by getting travel visa to Jordan) , cross the border and get the passport stamped and return back to Jordan right away….it depends on the ground situation though…. Can the Syrian embassy in Jordan itself might be able to stamp the passport? just a guess …DJust a common sense type of suggestion…
Can’t she book a return flight on the same day and land there, get the stamp on the passport and stay in the airport or a hotel nearby and then return on the same day or next day? I am not sure if just landing there itself too risky…in that case this may not be a good idea….DBuddy, something similar has happened to me as well. I work in tech so after scanning my phone etc which didn’t give any suspicious results, I quickly realised the culprit is most likely Google itself and also social apps like FB, Instagram and so on. I know it is hard to get rid of WhatsApp but uninstall all other social apps and all other apps that you don’t need. Many of these apps listen to your conversation and sell the data to marketers and such. Amazon Alexa and Ok Google are also in this in list….go to your settings and go to app permissions and turn off microscope permission to every app except Phone app, WhatsApp, camera and such. Turn off Google listening facility like voice search…
Don’t do any internet searches that are of sensitive nature on the mobile and when you do, turn on Incognito mode, on laptop or mobile.It seems to have partially worked but I still get calls as my data has already been sold to hundreds of people and they keep selling it to more people 😕😲 what to do. There is nothing I can do except use filters like True caller and such and irritate the hell out of the tele callers…😀😀
DYou are welcome! I really feel sad about your situation as my daughter is around your age and I can relate how you might be feeling.
I can only wish you all the best and pray that things will work out to your mutual wishes.
Stay strong….👍💪DSorry about your situation. But let me try to be objective here instead of emotional. I have seen these in many families in my many years of life experiences.How do you know for sure she is having an affair? Apart from social media posts and phone calls? Pardon me for saying this, Have you caught them red handed or something physically speaking? I suspect that is not the case.
After many years in a marriage , Women and Men of that age sometimes go through relationship stresses and issues and might look for a friend to learn on. That other man might be such a friend. Why not give her the benefit of doubt? The relationship between your mother and father is their business mostly, as their child and as a minor I don’t know if you should take that heavy burden on your shoulders to fix their relationship. They will sort it out eventually one way or the other.
Find a time when both are in a reasonable mood and sit with both of them ( send your brother away to play or something) and gently and respectfully but firmly talk to them and tell them their fights and their issues are disturbing your studies and mental health and you are getting depressed or something. Don’t yell at them but you can be emotional. Tears might melt their heart but don’t overdo it.
Ask them to sort it out and make peace between them. Please do not suggest or bring up Divorce as it is their job to figure out and not something you should bring up. It might be important for your family to be together until you join a college atleast.
If your Mother ( and your Father) is physically abusing you or deliberately torturing you mentally and such and depriving you of education and other basic necessities, and endangering the safety of you and your brother then it is a serious issue and you may have to involve other family elders and senior relatives. It seems that is not the case here as per your own description. In that case, give them time to sort it out…Try to forgive them in your mind…
Leave the matter be and just focus fully on the studies and getting into a premier College so that you can earn well and look after your brother if needed in the future.
I am also afraid you might be looking at the whole thing with a huge magnifying glass and a microscope. Fighting parents are pretty common in many houses and even divorces and affairs are also not uncommon now-a-days. It may all be temporary and might go away in the future..
So, I sincerely suggest you give it a benefit of doubt and let it go out of your mind and focus on your studies and look after your brother at home….Wish you all the best…
DParents always care about you even in cases if some parents are not good people. Best to talk to parents…the big mistake young people do now-a-days is to not talk to parents about what is going on in their life….DPlease don’t do anything until your exams are over or it might even backfire on you….Request her nicely to not distrub you until exams are over. Don’t send any messages promising to meet her etc, might be used against you.. remember this girl has serious mental health issues and it is not about LOVE…she needs psychiatric help… approach the college principal after exams and inform everything, take your parents with you or some elders…
