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EYou paid her for the time and company, now it’s over, learn your lesson, and move on, unless you insist on learning some more.ELosing half of your assets, and being booked in jail for domestic violence, also seems to be high risk.EFind anyone who can talk to her parents, probably neighbors, or the parents relatives, you need to shove there, your wife is just a puppet, listening to her parents, so go to their house and talk to the neighbors that their daughter is doing this, then societal pressure can help you get the consented divorce.
Or get up one day, move out to another town, and let see what happens, at least you will be happy, if I were you, that’s exactly what I will do, she may not leave the house, but you can, she is betting on that you are greedy to lose, once you are ready to lose, they can’t hold you with anything, pack up and leave.
EThis is not for your sake, this is for him to say, my kid passed the exam, down the line, you will lose the whole future, once they find out. Do what is right by you, if your father wants to do it, let him do it for himself.EThey are projecting, because they have taken your son away, and don’t want you to have relationship , so he is controlled only by his mom and her parents.Does your in-law respect any elders in their family? Then talk to them to talk to your in-law, they will talk to your wife, she is not taking this decision all by herself, without her parents blessing, she is not doing it, so go and attack at the source.
If they don’t come to talk, then talk to neighbors of your in-law, so they will come talk , attack the source, tell them you want to see your son, don’t leave it so easy for them to throw you away, put up a fight.
This PPD does not mean you can’t see your son, she can hide and not talk to you all she wants, but the baby belongs to you 50 percent, so you have the rights, and if you go by the law, by the time verdict comes, your son will be 15 years old, and will not recognize you
EThe society is adjusting to the changes, just like women have made changes not to follow traditional roles, Men are changing and adapting not to follow the traditional provider role, but rather a partner during marriage, unlike a soul mate or something. Serial monogamous partners, that’s where India is leading to, and in that game, Men need to protect their assets.EIt’s not fear, it’s preparation, getting married has these consequences, and there is nothing wrong with expecting the worst,and preparing for it. You don’t want your hard earned money to give it to someone who doesn’t make you a cup of coffee, it’s like rich people planning for taxes, it’s nothing wrong, you protect your assets for self preservation.EDNA is not allowed? Because everyone knows the mother, but Indian supreme court doesn’t want to find the father, what a disgrace to that child, growing without knowing who is the real father.EKeep it in your pants, unless you want to marry her, casual sex is for her, if she wants to, not for you, for Men, sex always has consequences, sometimes severe, there is no casual about it.
