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FWhere do you even get such a sense of entitlement at the age of 23? If you want a house, go out there, earn your own money and then build a house. Nobody can kick you out of your own house and you can be proud of building something with your own hard earned money. That’s what I did and so should you.
Your father’s property is his to keep. Just because he gave birth to you, it doesn’t mean his property becomes yours or you have any inherent right to live in that property.
FJust a 40k debit/credit transaction triggered their suspicion? This seems unbelievable bro. Even for a student, transactions worth a few lakhs isn’t out of the ordinary considering kids often take money from parents to buy shit. Heck 40k is so low that it could even be pocket money for most kids.This bank manager is truly out of his mind or may be there is more to the story.
FAgreed. Hard to believe anyone can be so foolish as OP’s cousin but then again no shortage of fools in this country.FI have even seen women lodging DV case against relatives who don’t even live in the same state or country for that matter. How can this be allowed? It seems nobody is immune to this pathetic law. Worst thing is the accused then have to go through the trouble of hiring a good lawyer and spend sleepless nights and money to get the FIR quashed. What a fucking joke this country has become.FEven if somebody is not interested in a particular proposal, he/she may talk with the prospect just to see if there is some chemistry or they like something about each other. Nobody can take a final decision based on just a photo or biodata. What his brother has done is very common.He only talked for a month, that’s nothing. Many people even talk for a year and go on multiple dates during that time before coming to a final decision about marriage. Unless marriage was promised at any stage, it’s not a crime to simply back out due to any reason whatsoever.
FBS!! Don’t talk about things you know nothing about. How is a man supposed to know if he can spend entire life with a woman unless he talks with her? In this country, every person is free to talk and exchange texts with the opposite gender as long as they want but there is no compulsion to go ahead with the marriage unless absolutely sure. A man can’t be expected to take decision of marriage after talking with a woman’s father. He ain’t marrying the father, is he?FThere is nothing they can do legally. Until the knot is tied, you are well within your right to reject a potential match. Their community traditions and/or expectations are not your headache. Block their numbers and move on. The girl won’t commit suicide, rest assured. These are nothing but emotional blackmail strategies.FNow you know why everybody hate cops in India. They live off our taxes and then treat us like garbage.FThese days home delivery of home cooked meals is very popular in cities. You can print a few pamphlets and distribute it locally. Once the orders start coming in, take the help of your son to deliver food to the customers or you can do that yourself too.Anyone can make a living these days with so many options available. Heck you can even work part time as a Swiggy/Zomato delivery person for extra money. There is no reason to think you can’t do anything. You need to put in the effort my dear. Money doesn’t fall from the sky.
FI am sure you don’t want your ex-wife to enjoy your money. Most people don’t. If you don’t mind, then it’s all good and nothing to worry about in that case.FYour 10 lakhs is gone. Can’t do anything about it. But if the policy papers are with you, hopefully she won’t be able to claim it in future.
