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FHi OP.
As far as i can understand, there was no affair involved from your *wife*.
Please understand, women are emotional beings and open up and become vulnerable to people whom they trust and care about.
If by interacting with mrs XYZ gives her that mental peace, let her.No wonder she is feeling frustrated if you tell her to stop all contacts. She will resent you.
Instead, set goals and priorities. Let her complete the list of chores or things you have assigned for the both of you.
If her friendship with XYX gives her comfort, let her have it as long as she keeps up with her contribution for the house in terms of chores or whatever you have discussed.
I feel you are just a bit possessive.
If you want a fresh start, both need to compromise. Not being able to have a child is mentally jarring.
Do you know how much a woman has to suffer and what rubbish she has to deal with around relatives?
Nobody blames the guy. It’s always the woman’s fault.
FHi OP, I’m sorry that you went through this.First, did this person ever apologize to you? If not, you ensure that he does. This is the first step in the recovery process, he should fall at your feet or need to regret his actions in front of all.
When he apologizes, make a video if you’re feeling he’s not genuine.
Use that as proof.
And personal advice to you is to meditate, move on slowly, ( i know it is difficult), learn to succeed in everything. All the very best OP. Stay blessed.
