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FI dont know what culture is what. All I know is kids do not have a choice when they are born. It’s the parents who make the choice. If they are unsure of providing for them and taking care of themselves, they should never have children.
Its a different thing that children out of love for their parents take care of them in their old age. But it’s not their responsibility, but its parents responsibility to care of their children since they made a choice to bring a human into this world.
FAs parents you need to have the capacity to provide for children and also to look after yourselves. It’s unfair to burden the children with the responsibility of taking care of you their entire life.Only have kids if you can provide and not expect anything back, because you chose to have children but the children did not choose to be born.
FOP first this the wrong sub.Second, I completely understand your parents view. Always remember that whenever there is a choice between survival and self respect, humans always end up choosing survival. For your parents your brother is the means to their existence. They cannot imagine going against him because its the end of their life. He is the provider and they will do anything to ensure he doesn’t stop providing for them.
It’s a very unfortunate situation. And your parents have failed as parents, but I can understand why they are doing this. What you did was the best case scenario. I am proud of you that you took such a daring step. Make a good life for yourself, build a good career and you will be fine. There is no rulebook that says you need family to lead happy fulfilled life. You can do very well without them.
Good luck.
