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HSadly, even if you try to intimidate the girl and someone she files a report, your friend is fucked.
Let it go. Lesson learnt.
HShe is almost getting rid of both of you. You don’t need to pay any money. Also, why would you even get into a relationship with a married woman whose separation is yet not cleared?Legal or not, run away.
HThis OP. Do not use that money. Maybe guide the person to visit a branch and then do what the branch says. All documented.HStart looking outside for opportunities. Don’t bother about money. Keep stalling the task the way he stalls your cash. It’s just one month so no big deal. Give yourself time to prepare for other companies.Don’t have any soft spot for them since they don’t have it for you and and they are straight blaming and questioning your skills. Involve lawyer when things get ugly which it shouldn’t.
HNAL. I was doing my masters and withing a month I got a better college so I changed my college. They returned all my documents without any hesitation. They are just trying to milk some money since they cannot fill the seat vacated by you and that will be a loss for them.Talk to some senior guy there, if they aren’t agreeing, hire a lawyer. Being autonomous doesn’t give them the right to f*** up with someone’s life.
HNot that I have any suggestions, but a few times I feel how helpless we become in front of our blood.HYou do understand that the extra amount that he asked for was to bribe the officials like tehsildar and his chamchaas to get your work faster? You cannot go to police with this. And what is stopping you from visiting that cyber cafe and talk to the guy there and asking your money?As per your problem, I am assuming you are getting it done via a block office? Go there, get any agent, give him some money and he will get your document in one to two days.
H>it this even legal(it is written in the document)NO It’s not. Go ahead champ, explore better opportunities. There are laws to protect you.
NAL.
HThey must have informed you this but FIR and Complaint are different. So yes, you can file a complaint. Sorry, I didn’t mention NAL in my response.HYes, you can approach Delhi Police informally without immediately filing an FIR. The Delhi Police has Women Help Desks at most police stations where your friend can speak with officers and request informal intervention. They might call the ex and issue a warning.Another option is the Delhi Police’s women helpline (1091) or their main helpline (112), where you can explain the situation and ask about informal complaint options.
The Delhi Police also has a mobile app called “Himmat Plus” designed specifically for women’s safety issues.
HI got it done online and that also many years ago. Go to ECI website. AFAIK you will need your parents voter id details, not sure though.H**Why haven’t you got a personal loan, and repaid her yet.**You can go to a lawyer and start fighting for the right and all but it’s you who agreed to all this. Don’t lose your night’s sleep over this. Law for helpless people make no sense. The lawyer will ask for money, or worse, he can talk to other party and then both will screw you.
Getting a PL is the easiest thing you can do.
HThere is a lot of information missing here.1- What is your personal finance situation?
2- How is the situation about marriage at the boy’s house? How about their parents? Do they like you? Are they okay with accepting you and taking care of all the consequences?
3- What is the the boy’s expectation from you and vice versa in case you do not have any support other than one another?
Speaking from personal experience, do not take any step that might harm you later. Don’t mind me saying but love will fade once everyone cuts you off and you start struggling. So make sure you have thought it enough, especially from the finance perspective.
