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JThese people completely disregard the fact that alimony is gender neutral. If the man had helped in making his wife financially independent, he would be the one getting money. Instead,he curtailed her career and is now crying about the same.JJust looked at your comment history. You’re 24 with no relationship, and every third post is about how much you dislike women, and how you would divorce your wife for ‘denying’ sex. Just don’t get married. Please. From the way you talk, it’s clear that any woman would be settling for a life of servitude to a man who does not like her. Stay away from women if you don’t like their entire gender. Adopt if you want kids (although from your comments I see that you’re against men taking of kids that aren’t biologically theirs)
P.S. if you want an answer: it’s to not be patriarchal, marry a woman who’s more successful than you are, don’t take dowry (gifts), pay for your wedding,don’t make your wife stop working, support her career, do household chores, support your wife instead of your parents in argumens , help in house choress and to take care of your kids. And actually like the woman you’re marrying. AND TREAT HER LIKE A HUMAN. Woman don’t exist for you. They exist for themselves. If you were capable of doing any of these you wouldn’t be asking this question in the first place. If you were capable of being in a healthy marriage you would realise that these cases are outliers and indian judges usually side with men. But wtv.
Please, stay away from women. If you wanted to get married to my sister and I saw your reddit account, i would genuinely tell her to stay far far away from you.
JDude she definitely needs to play along and record stuff before getting a divorce. Especially the part about him caring more about his parents than his child. Record it. Get evidence. I have a friend who’s mother was in a kinda similiar situation when she was born(husband had a gf but didn’t marry her because he was rajput and she was brahmin, in laws taunted her for not being appealing to their son, for taking 5 months to get pregnant, and for not giving them the wedding jewellery). She got a divorce and once she proved that he didn’t care about their daughter, getting sole custody was super easy. The girl grew up to be a super smart and nice person. She got more than 99% in both 10 and 12 pcm+econ iirc. One good girl is always better than a bad one and a distressed one
