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KNAL. Hire a good lawyer, preferable one that comes through a connection(trust me it is worth it) and push for mediation. These cases invariably get settled only out of court. Have evidence ready that she left just 2 months after and hasn’t returned since. Keep the evidence of your communication handy that you tried reconciliation which was rejected by themKHonestly what’s wrong with young ppl these days. Does it need to be spelled out to restrict access to your phone? If you did it willingly then it’s on youKNAL
Yet another Gem from India where no one seems to care what the girl probably wants
Realistically I don’t see a reason why your friend should go ahead with it. It’s unknown territory and you haven’t mentioned what the girls interest is. Girls parents pushing your friend to fight is unrealistic since it is them who should say no the guy. Not worth the trouble IMO
KGood advice on the lump sum. Why do you want to keep coordinating with the jerk. Account for everything that’s required for your sons upbringing and educational success till college – at least undergrad and ask him to pay upfront and arrange for a house to stay for both of you and you can buh bye to himKIn all likelihood he’s bluffing and won’t come after you. Trying to guilt you into paying. If he doesn’t have money, he can’t hire a lawyer. In case he does, it may help to have the proof of all the payments you have made and of his absence for 14 yearsKNALSorry to hear what you’re going through. Gather as much evidence as possible and get a GOOD lawyer who doesn’t shy away from fighting it out in court. You may not get full custody but you can push things in court enough tht she settles eventually for a joint custody agreement (these things always invariably get settled outside or through mediation)
KPls find a good lawyer through a family/friend connection. Don’t go to someone not recommended. I hope you have all the transfer detailsKAll I want to say is that find a lawyer with some connection because even lawyers will keep pushing things and take advantage. Considering your means are limited, a trusted lawyer with good advice will mean a lot
