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KDefinitely not gonna be easy taking money out of that account now. Pls contact your bank asap and let them know and complete the paperwork for transfer of funds to the nomineeKWhen I watch foreign true crime documentaries, Iām fascinated by the forensic and detective work they put into tracing the criminal. When I watch Indian true crime documentaries, I see cops saying – we caught him, we āinterrogatedā him and he told usKAlthough itās a bad sign starting a new relationship with such lack of trust but esp in cases of arranged marriages, we need to normalise prenups in India š¤·š»āāļøKAll these cases will be filed in different courts and you donāt need to appear in all of them. The ones you file against the bank will move slowly but the ones you file against your father might see some action. But if you donāt know where he is then it might be difficult cos they canāt serve him noticeKThe bank should be able to removed your motherās name from the loan if you show the divorce was taken before disbursing the loan. Also if your mother did not sign the loan docs then sheās not liableKIf anyone is settling with mutual consent, agreeing to let the non custody parent pay after the divorce is done is recipe for disaster. You donāt get closure, thereās always risk of the other party discontinuing to pay and you are still reliant
Take whatever you agree before the divorce and then plan your life accordingly
KThat divorce can be challenged anytime in the future in India.And whatās the need to be hostile for something so trivial?
KIf the marriage was conducted in India then even if you do this, itās not valid. Foreign courts donāt have jurisdiction in the place where the marriage was solemnisedKNALMatrimonial cases rarely get settled in court in India. Itās always settled mutually or through mediation. So you will have to pay what you mutually agree. Get a good lawyer who can negotiate a good deal for you. Or if youāre ok get one who will drag things in court which frustrates the other party bringing them to the negotiating table. If youāre able to show with evidence that you and her have similar savings itāll help your case
KFrom the responses Iām seeing OP being a je*k to responses telling them they effed up. I donāt think theyāre looking for solutions, theyāre looking for ppl to go āawww you poor thingāYouāve reached your masters without having understood that actions have consequences?? An absolutely unrelated student couldnāt have been held responsible for an incident. Either youāre close with the ppl who did it or youāre actually involved. Whatās the reason only 14 were picked?
IIM is a state institute. Their credibility (and funding) depends on following laid down protocol. This sh*t might float in private colleges. And they also want quality alumni. If this goes out in the industry, there are some fields you will NEVER get hired in, banking for example.
