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MCan you get his intellectual capability tested from a doctor (a psychiatrist)? A doctor’s assessment of unsound mind is different from what we deem a person to be of unsound mind. I believe a doctor might be able to prove whether he is of sound mind or not more properly and it will help you a lot in future.
Also, do not share the results just in case he is declared to be of unsound mind. It might cause lot of trouble in future.
MIs he of sound mind? If yes, I suggest you get him to change the name of the beneficiaries in the insurance policy. Contact the Manager of the bank and ask him what options does he have in order to make necessary changes in insurance policy. The manager or someone from bank can visit him at home too. Banks do provide home visits nowadays. Submit the exact reason in writing in the application.MContact a lawyer and file a divorce. The most you can do is suggest your husband to go for mutual divorce for things to go smoothly. If he doesn’t agree to it, it’s on him.Do not file fake cases or ask for big amount of alimony and maintenance. You will stretch the case unnecessary. Just get back things that belong to you and leave him for good.
Do not fall for compromise, mediation or even couple therapy. Men like your husband are basically misogynistic. A couple-therapy isn’t going to fix his hateful and oppressive views on women. Even if he relents to your views to keep the marriage, he will resent you, blame you and taunt you for rest of your married life.
MAbsolutely! As long as both the adult parties are unmarried/divorced/widowed at time of marriage, the marriage is legally valid.MThis has got to be a troll because nothing you said makes sense.If he makes out with random women in parties (publicly) and goes home with them then what reputation is left to save?!
Nothing you said adds up. I cannot believe that people wouldn’t be aware of his real face and shenanigans given how open he is with his actions. People are aware of way more discreet affairs that take place in society. Your husband isn’t exactly discreet.
Also, you said you loved him but the truth is you feared your loneliness. That does not equate to love. You never loved him (and shouldn’t given how disgusting he is) and he also never loved you.
File a case of divorce on grounds of mental cruelty and leave.
MThis may sound idealistic but the moment you marry for superficial reasons, you are doomed! This goes for everything in life. Parents are doomed by the very children they feared because they had children for selfish reasons and not because they truly wanted to be someone’s parents. The same goes for marriage.Ask yourself why do you want to get married, what exactly do you want from your partner and what can you give her in return, see your partner as a human being and marriage as a relationship and not some transaction between two commodities. Do not let red flags slide and do not marry simply because things look good on the paper. Align your values and ethics with the person and not just your comfort and discomfort. Ask yourself if you are willing to be a partner in true sense to your partner and vice versa.
By true sense I mean would you care and love her at sickness and in health? Would you sacrifice your career if the situation arises to do so for her career growth? Are you willing to take a step back for the sake of your family if the situation arises or would you always wish for her to be the one to do? Everything you expect from her for you and your extended family, are you also willing to do the same for her and her extended family?
Also, men never let this happen but when you get married, your wife and the kids become your family and parents and everyone else becomes an extended family. Yup! Parents become extended family in the life of a married couple. Men need to evolve and accept this.
MPlease remember: never give money to non-permanent and distrustful people in your life or always loan it against some valuable item. I would never loan any sort of money to my partner or even a friend. It always weirded me out that a person knows 10 people before me that were in his/her life years before me yet the first person they ask for money from is me. It’s not a sign of trust in your capabilities or in the relationship. It’s a sign that the person is just looking for a new trap.MIndia has a law-making body called Legislature. At Union level, we call it The Parliament and at the State level, it is called the Legislative Assembly.The Parliament consists of members of Parliament (popularly known as MPs) and The Legislative Assembly consists of Members of the Legislative Assembly (popularly known as MLAs). All these members are elected by the public so there are basically representatives of the us (the public). They are the ones that present the bill (draft of a law), vote on it, get the President’s assent and make it a proper enforceable law.
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