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MAlso a controlling parent usually has some big regrets in their life which they are carrying with them on their shoulders /heart and not able to talk it out. May be you can help them.MUnderstand that this is how their upbringing has been. And it is not your fault.
And you are a victim of their upbringing. Your parents also are a victim, as they learnt the same from their parents.
What you can focus on is breaking the cycle. Cutting out ties is an option but I won’t recommend. But try to find other ways.
What I do is voice my concern in a mild and assertive tone (aggressive behaviour will root up further aggression) and stick to my principles. You will need to draw a line with them and assert that everytime they cross. Talk in your natural tone and avoid shouting or talking aggressively. It hardly helps in diffusing the situation.
MImmediately talk to the bank customer care.1. Block the card temporarily
2. Inform them that the txn was scammed and request them to put the transaction in dispute.
3. The dispute resolution process takes 1-2 weeks.MI had the same issue. The delivery got returned and they refunded me the money in a 8-9 working days time.May be wait a little bit. Else drop then email to estore@amul.coop
MSociety should have AMC and it should cover it.
Identify if your maintenance is contributing to AMC. If yes, you can probably push this argument.Else just mention that society didn’t take AMC and it should go from society funds (this will hit your society corpus)
MHer consciousness is limited. She is probably not cooperating in a marriage. She should understand that a lifestyle will be based on the income of the house.
