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SYes you are correct. I will be moving out this time. Because I have had enough, and I can see these people don’t care for me, hence why I turned to this subreddit.
You must realise, even though I know I’m being abused, I have a sense of duty and love towards my parents. My mother goes to extreme measures to stop me from leaving, when physical altercations don’t work out. In February she overdosed on some medicines (some kind of relaxant I believe) and she got a problem in her colon as a consequence, and she’s still going to doctors now (her sphincters kinda stopped working/got paralysed idk) and I felt I had to stay because she turned to these measures for me.
Even in the past she often did these, because of which I stayed. But she still kicked me out yesterday, so I see that she doesn’t have any problems with me leaving when it’s at HER discretion. I’m really tired and it’s unfair to me and my partner, to whom I usually vent. So I will be moving out as soon as I can pack and apply for the duplicates of my documents.
I will also be looking into therapy once all this is sorted out and I am in a place of stability.
SYes! I have applied for master’s and doctoral opportunities in various countries of Europe, including Germany. Waiting to hear back 🤞And thank you for the support. You don’t know how much it means to me to know that there is an escape from this situation.
SI know it’s weird, but i graduated last May and since my onboarding date was in August, I came back home. But since my job is work from home, any attempts to leave have been shut down by my parents 🫠 Not only my mental health is at rock bottom, but also I have zero social life. Parties, meetups, movies?? What’re those? Everything is forbidden 🥲 And it’s ironic because I pay my parents rent. I would love to move out, believe me.SYes, another comment suggested applying for duplicates of the important documents, so I will be looking into it first thing.I am currently at a friend’s house but I do hope my mom calms down soon and lets me back in.
I would love to keep my job by my side. But I don’t see myself being able to survive in this field and I’m absolutely not passionate about it. I would love to go for Metallurgy jobs, but it’s mostly PSUs, and they have an age limit of 25-27 years, and I can’t afford to not study now if I want to end up in my favoured field. Truly a mess. I hope I can sort it out. Thank you for taking the time to reply.
SThere are not many dependencies. I pay rent, and my groceries, food, essentials are separate. The only thing I don’t pay for are the utility bills.I will be looking into getting duplicate copies just like you suggested. My only fear is that it may take a long time and since GATE college counselling is from May, i am afraid of not being able to produce the original copies on such short notice if I am not let back into the house.
As for therapy, i am very much interested in going for it (also have other unresolved mental health issues) but I have to get stability first.
Su/depressedsun_flower Run away. If they are okay with killing you, they are okay with you running away. Take important documents, your phone etc if you have, some of your own money or steal it, run away and never look back after your 12th exams finish. Contact NGOs for women and lay low. There are people who take 2-3 years drop for exams easily. Gap years won’t be an issue, you don’t have to hurry. Establish your in a safe place in the first year. You can get distance learning from coaching centres far cheaper than classroom programs. Study diligently the next 1-2 years. You will get NEET and live your life.I saw a comment where you said you will go after 12th certificate. They upload the originals on your digilocker in case you are in cbse board, you can print it from there.
SYea, a redditor sent me the legal definition of rape. I really hope these laws are updated soon, cuz to be honest, india suddenly seems a lot more dangerous these 3-4 years and these situations will keep happening without criminals getting convinced just because they’re finding loopholes. But to be honest, right now, chances look bleak.SMan, that excludes like several situations with even women, and completely forgets about men. Our laws definitely need a do over, because what the hell is this
