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STell him, I need to so that I can deposit to the other house you rented. That owner is asking.
And tell i can vacate the house if deposit not received by xx-xx-xxxx date.
If not did, then visit nearby police and submit your agreement copy and tell him to help in this matter.
SCheck with her friends and family.Do text her in all sorts of mediums.
If nothing she replied then
You have to pay a price for your foolishness and stupidity and learnt a lesson for life. Don’t repeat again.I don’t think the police file case in her, instead they can file case on you. If you kabe any known any police or lawyer friends ask them once before filing case.
SBro, learn to say NO. Otherwise you will realise the cost for not saying no.If you taken loan as a co borrower, at least have insurance on that loan. Check with the agent that if someone gets in permanent disability or death then the insurance to agencies to clear that loan or help in some percentage of amount. (This part I am not sure, check with insurance agents)
House owner: both you and your dad to be the owners, joint account.
Always keep this in mind – Bad finance is always a dead zone, whoever links to it will pay the penalty, the cost for that will be mental breakdown or death.
Best is: show the numbers to your father and try him to understand little, in terms of the loan debt game, take physics printouts and sit and discuss with current earnings of both and current debts and how many years it leads to payoff. By the time what will be the age of yours. And also show him what are the additional costs involve over the period of time and by the time the lon gets clear you will at his age and did nothing but paying debts of his mistakes!
If he is attacking with emotions then you also do the same with emotion as well as numbers, at the end he will have a chance of understanding it. Otherwise always say no and you choose your life, ultimately he has to obey you otherwise he won’t get the loan so both are safe.
Until your signature, you have time to be on the right path despite whatever he says, once you sign then no one can save you, not even your dad.
You will die one day by paying loans that’s the ultimate path of taking too many loans.
All the best.
