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UA little bit similar. It was my ex best friend. He had suicidal thoughts and did drugs cos of it and he’d call me up n tell me he wants to die n all…
When he talks about that I’d talk to him tell him there’s more n I’m there and all those things, sometimes contacted his friends to cheer him up if I can’t meet him… Went on for like 3 years. But it took a serious toll on my mental n emotional health too.
UHey, I don’t have any advice from the legal side but from my personal experience. U probably held on all this time hoping that ur presence will bring about a change and u can help her and u can endure it all for her sake and yeah I did the same too but nothing worked out and it got so much harder for me and my emotions were all over the place and I was emotionally manipulated too.But I let him go. It was really hard but I let him go for my mental and emotional well-being and we both went on with our lives. It was hard for me but i learned to move on and let him go.
So think of yourself too, of how long u can continue like this and lose all semblance of yourself in trying to make the one u love with all ur heart better. If u think it’s worth it, stay. If not, then leave. And like u have said, if u stay n she does the unthinkable it’ll come back to u negatively. Ur mental and emotional load will increase a thousandfold.
