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Ubecause the girl side is not backing off and they are thinking that no one will marry that girl after calling off the engagement. Every day I say no I will never marry this girl. but the girl side is not backing off and they are forcing my family to do the same. my family has their ego about society and societal talks. I had my stand and I will have my stand to say no but there is family drama that scares me.UMy 4 hours of everyday goes in this matter to solve it and resolve it to take it to a place where both party can agree to not to take it further.UI wish i could so exactly what you have suggested to do in second paragraph. I will never want anyone to be in my situation at any cost.UIn this marriage there will never be LOVE. I accept that I’m very sure that I won’t have any affair in my life but not sure about the girl.UI am doing anything to stop this but I can’t make you see why am helpless and you won’t believe until you see the real problem I’m facing right now. Please read reply in other comment to know more.UWhat if they are ready to sign an affidavit accepting all this? They are agree to do this as i know. I don’t know why ME. i have done badtamizee and all to make them run away but only thing they are saying that engagement is done we can’t backoff.UI can’t help, I don’t want to do this but it all about family pressure and I can’t do anything about it. I’m well educated, i have done my bachelor’s and masters from an institution which is called institute of national importance. I’m working, I’m doing what i wanted to do but i come under handicapped category(for society) if someone will see me physically they won’t find anything wrong in me even sometimes people can’t find what is the problem in me, problem is that when i wanted to marry anyone I liked and thought this could be best match, someone from my village visit the girls family and say so many wrong thing and girl family reject the everything without giving second thought. Somewhere my family thought that i am not gonna be married because of society. And this happened i said at-least 1000 times that I won’t marry this girl, i said to girls family and my own family but no body listen. Now they are saying that we are okay with the fact that you don’t live together. Girl is not educated enough to work anywhere which is okay for me but if i see 100 things in her and try to find one positive thing, I can’t find a single positive thing in her. There is no body who can listen to me.
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