not a legal adviser here , par ek simple si baat hai
jab pata tha ki ladki ko traumas hai , aur tumse khud bhi nhi sambhlenge usme traumas to fir kyu bnayi bandi ?? agar nahi sambhal Rahi thi to banayi kyu. agar tum uski insecurity settle nhi kar sakte , ulta khud bhi struggle kar rahe , then you aren’t for relationship bhai.
drastic actions agR usne kara to sabse pehle uska phone check hoga aur usme tum dikhoge bas. isse accha dono milke situation sort out karo