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UWell I have assisted in a lot of MTP’s in a govt hospital when I was in India. The refusal to do MTP most likely does not stem from you being unmarried. Gynae and Obs department are known for the high drama which happens there regularly. People abandoning girl child, accusing staff of exchanging babies, doing caesarean instead of vaginal delivery etc etc. A lot of families and relatives become violent and nobody is wants drama in their life as most of the doctors and nurses are students themselves. They want someone to accompany you so that if your parents/relatives later holds the hospital responsible if something happens to you or if it is an ectopic pregnancy and you need surgical intervention then do need a next of kin present there. Doctor patient confidentiality means nothing to the relatives and parents and the nobody wants to answer or get beaten up if your MTP becomes known.UThey surely then were banking on the hunch that most likely the girl parents wont know that she is meeting a male and they could pressurise you into paying money. Happened with me one time too. They asked me to call my parents and I just plainly told them that I am an adult and I wont do it. Then can take me to a police station and do a FIR if they think that I have broken a law. My parents would most likely scold me for roaming late night out but they would sue the hell out of them for harassing me while I was just out doing nothing. I also called the people walking nearby to call 100 so I could complain to the police emergency number that I was being harassed. Never give them your phone. Just imagine if they were fake police. Things could have been worse. They left when I wasn’t scared and starting shouting for someone to call 100. They always bank on your fear.
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