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March 3, 2025 at 4:48 am

You are 18 Years old. Getting married in this age needs careful due diligence. Weigh your decisions carefully.

If you still want to proceed considering all the risk and rewards:
Get married to your Indian boyfriend.
Get an OCI card and keep your US citizenship.

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February 16, 2025 at 7:38 am

This is what’s understanding:
She gave 1.5L in Oct 2023.
You repaid 1.8L till Feb 2025.
Seems like you paid little over 18%/year over course of 16 months which equates to 30K.
It’s fair interest rate. Tell her sorry i cannot pay more than this, if she resists, file an FIR and deal with court.

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February 16, 2025 at 6:11 am

Go talk to each of the lender and reduce % interest rate and work out a plan of EMI which you can manage. Do it now.

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February 15, 2025 at 7:50 am

Go to the bank and do whatever you need to do and get a loan and clear her out with 18%/yr interest not more than that.

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February 7, 2025 at 12:16 pm

oh man.
Giving money in india to people is fun.
Just don’t do it. If you really want, get a 3X property registered in your name before you giving it.

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January 27, 2025 at 12:12 pm

cheating.

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January 27, 2025 at 11:12 am

Credit card stolen
FIR Complaint
Raise dispute

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January 16, 2025 at 3:50 pm

Just say “no, respectfully – do you best to make her understand”, if she is persistent “block” and move on.

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