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U> Fuck around and find out
How does this help OP again? Do you think he doesn’t know that by now? Or do you just want to feel superior for a couple of minutes by saying that?
If you do decide to say it, at least accompany it with an actual advice that can help him now. But you don’t wanna do that do you? It’s more fun to just gloat.
If you don’t have anything useful to say, it’s better to just stay silent instead.
UWhat the hell is “lesson learnt”? She is not regretting an overpriced handbag she bought, for you to say “lesson learnt”. She was SAd. There is no lesson to be learnt here. What happened should not have happened. She was 14. There is nothing she could have done to prevent it.A mother’s brother is supposed to care for the niece when the parents are not around, show love. Not molest them. I can’t even imagine the trauma OP must be experiencing. She needs to immediately seek therapy to process the trauma.
Then if she has the will to fight, she should seek justice.
UWhat the hell is “lesson learnt”? She is not regretting an overpriced handbag she bought, for you to say “lesson learnt”. She was SAd. There is no lesson to be learnt here. What happened should not have happened. She was 14. There is nothing she could have done to prevent it.A mother’s brother is supposed to care for the niece when the parents are not around, show love. Not molest them. I can’t even imagine the trauma OP must be experiencing. She needs to immediately seek therapy to process the trauma.
Then if she has the will to fight, she should seek justice.
U> if you ask sex its marital rape 😔Asking for sex is not marital rape. Forcing your spouse to have sex with you is considered marital rape (not in our country but the general definition)
Withholding physical affection from your spouse and using sex as a weapon is cruel in my opinion. Sex is supposed to be something which both parties should be enjoying not one party using as a tool to make the other person listen to them.
If you find yourself in a dead bedroom situation or with a person who uses sex as a weapon, try to fix it through communication or going to counselling or divorcing if everything fails. But forcing your spouse to have sex with you IS and should be considered Marital Rape (again, not in our country)
