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UHow about just leaving them alone? Why is your first instinct to go tell somebody? They’re happy and are likely into exhibition but they’re doing it INSIDE their property and not bothering anybody. Do the same and mind your own business. It’s not like they do it everyday (as per your description), it won’t do you any harm to look away from the window once in a while.
There’s already enough hate going around, please don’t add to it.
UNot a lawyerWhile you weren’t completely right doing that as the more polite approach would be to knock on their door and let them know your intentions and ask them if they’re okay with it. Think of it, some random stranger starts clicking pictures of your house, you’re gonna get creeped out and start worrying about your safety. But you didn’t deserve such humiliation either. This matter could’ve been sorted out more privately with the involvement of only a few people including the authorities.
This lady seems problematic either way and I’d suggest you maintain your distance from her and next time be careful doing such things, clicking pictures of objects in public is different from going in front of someone’s house and clicking pictures.
UThe offended Hindus downvoting you here so just wanted to say don’t worry about this part, converting is a big deal and not as simple as inter-religion marriage. I wish the two of you the best! I hope at least one of you is earning well so you can get by and also hire a lawyer if needed, try your best to get high paying jobs, both of you.UIdk how much that will work as I’ve usually seen such situations get turned towards the guy somehow. They could, I think, say something like the girl was already under the influence when going to the hotel and wasn’t in a position to make clear decisions and the guy knew this would happen so used it to his advantage, etc etc. All in all, you’ll need a good lawyer to get you out of this.Just know that the Indian law treats women as children (hate it) who are incapable of critical thinking and will take everything you say at face value.
U>There is NO female in india who hasn’t once felt uncomfortable by males, be it the uncomfortable stare or touchWhat are you on about? That’s literally not even the point here.
And I’m a woman, like you’ve already realised through my other comments. Anyway there’s no point in arguing with people who distort original statements to make their “point”
USadly, it’ll be seen as the guy raping the girl. Can be manipulated in many ways like the guy got the two of them drinking so that he could take advantage of herU>unless the goal is male attention and validation.Why, is it in your nature to do the same especially even when you have a boyfriend? Like you said here too, I quote –
>You think that men and your man will like you more for itYou seem to be coming back to this point like deceit is natural to you but I assure you that I’ve been with my boyfriend for years enough to not need to rely on tricks to make him like me “more”, he’s here cuz he likes me (mind blowing right?) and I like him enough to not indulge in male attention. It’s simply called having an opinion which won’t always align with yours.
As for the rest of it, I’m not gonna spend anymore energy into showing how you’ve twisted my words
UYou are on a different level 🤣🤣>and the conclusion you draw from this post is the woman is ‘gritty and powerful’.
?? Do you have a hard time understanding well framed sentences, can you even read beyond what you want to read?
>And then your only excuse for this is that ‘my man has been subjected to this’.
Huh?? Bro what? How’s that an “excuse” in the first place? You see the hypocrisy? Oh right your brain’s too smooth for that. No wonder you skipped past every other point I made.
>You are the definition of a pickme, girl. You think that men and your man will like you more for it but you just out yourself as been tone deaf and socially unaware.
Mix in some very typical feministic argument lines with two original words and VOILA! you have the perfect “counter argument” 🤡
I’m done bro, can’t argue with clowns
USuch irony, if a person is defensive over a woman that’s gritty and powerful but the moment you do the same for men then you’re “victim blaming” and “being a pickme” 😂. I’m past that stage sis, I’ve seen the way men are violated shamelessly without them having any resource to protect themselves, also counting in the social stigma of how a woman can’t violate a man (not denying the stigma of women needing to stay silent to “protect their dignity”but that’s a whole other convo). My own man has been subjected to some horrendous acts in the past that he could do nothing about giving me more of a reason to be vigilant in these cases and question it as much as I wish to if it’s something worth doubting.The only reason I made my original comment under this post is because of repeated uncle harrasment posts I came across, would make anybody who thinks a little question it.
>You are , in your own words ‘questioning the legitimacy’ of only this particular post.
>If your response is questioning only female victims of sexual harrassment and assault, something India has become infamous for,
Quit strawmanning me, if you’re going to claim stuff at least stick to my original points. Also in that regard, India is internationally infamous for being unhygienic and stinky – you see how absurd that sounds in **this** argument
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>And yet your comment history has none of those ‘critical thinking’ comments on other posts of this sub, do they?
They do
U>But you only question the legitimacy of these posts, don’t you?Bold assumption but unfortunately for you, you’re wrong. I question everything, especially cases claiming rape, harrasment, molestation, dowry, and section 69, yes these are women exclusive cuz Indian laws are extremely pro-women while there’s barely any law that protects a man, and women are very actively misusing that. So I’m not wrong in having doubts and questioning things, it’s called using your brain instead of being a blind believer.
And in this case, I never dismissed her claim as this is, like you said too, pretty common, I’ve been a victim too when I was a minor but thankfully it was nothing very adverse and I was old enough to understand what was going on and prevent it from happening again.
ULike I already said, I’m not at all discounting your sufferings. I’m only being sceptical as I’ve seen such claims be made for the wrong reasons. I’ve also been put in a very uncomfortable situation by one of my uncles when I was a minor but thankfully I was old enough to recognise what was happening and never let it happen again so I’m definitely not dismissing you on whatever you’ve said. I’m only being doubtful and you can’t blame me or anybody for that with the kind of things happening lately. I genuinely hope that you’re able to take action against him if you’ve had to go through this and I’m also really sorry that you were in this position.UHow’s suddenly uncles harassing women when they were minors becoming a popular topic. Makes me doubt the legitimacy of it with all the false cases on the rise.To any feminazi about to say “this is why women don’t come forward”, respectfully, develop critical thinking, your stance will change instantly if your loved ones are ever stuck in a situation of being falsely accused (goodness forbid). Hear both sides of the story if you can or stay sceptical, giving the benefit of doubt when deserving.
UAs per Indian laws, having sex drunk = non consensual, hence, rape. Yeah so you gotta take this very seriously. Even if you weren’t drunk she could still file a fake case. With the current false-case situation going on everywhere, why would you hookup? Plus if you didn’t know already, Indian laws are extremely anti-men. Either avail paid services if you’re just unable to go without sex or just don’t. do. it.Not a lawyer.
