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BDude she needs to return anything she got in marraige as a compensation, it could be mehr, it could be earing, it could be bangle, it could even be nose ring gofted by the husband if that’s all she can afford.
Literally anything of value. Nobody is forced to pay something they can’t afford or something that can hinder their right to leave.
And other than what she returns, the husband has no right over anything she bought or he gave as a gift to her within their marriage, there are verses on this particular senerio aswell.
>Child Support is applicable to men of all religions
And..? That’s a good thing.
BI was not aware that it was this hard to get khula when religiously it could be given within a day.BYou get alimony during the iddah period regardless of which type of divorce is used.Also, no, you don’t have to return the mehr. If you can’t afford to do so, you can return anything of value that the husband provided within the marriage. It could be anything but needs to have a certain value.
A woman can’t be forced or demanded to pay more than what she can afford, especially if she gets khula through courts or Muslim jurists.
Also, the woman has inherent right to children’s custody, and the man has to pay child support until they reach adulthood. The man also has to compensate her for breastfeeding.
B>If a husband does not agree to khula, the wife can:>- Seek help from an Islamic court or a qualified scholar
– Initiate divorce proceedings in a court
– Take her case to a sharai punchayat or Darul QazaDude, isn’t that what I was saying…? That she can obviously go to court to get khula, and she does not need the husband’s consent.
BThat is regardless of if she remarries. There are multiple hadith on this. A woman can not be seperated from her child. Obviously, exceptions could be if she is abusive or deserted the child.B>2. Khula â Wife seeks divorce by returning dower (mahr) or giving compensation; needs husband’s consent.>Khula can only be given under husband’s consent. So in your case I don’t think it will work
That is not true. Khula is either mutul or granted through court/ Muslim jurists.
And a woman can give it to the husband regardless of if he is at fault or not.
There are multiple hadiths on it, especially the famous one of Wife of thabit, where she specifically said that there was no abuse, but she just didn’t want to continue the marriage.
The wife of Thabit ibn Qays came to the Prophet and said, âO Messenger of Allah, I do not blame Thabit for any defect in his character or religion, but I do not want to commit an act of disbelief (by being ungrateful).â The Prophet said, âWill you return his garden (mahr)?â She said, âYes.â So the Prophet told him to take back the garden and ordered that he divorce her.â
[The wife didnât accuse her husband of abuse â she simply couldnât continue the marriage. The Prophet allowed her to divorce in exchange for giving back the dowry.]
B>The mother can request custody as part of the Khula case.Mother inherently has custody both religiously and legally.
It’s not allowed in Islam to separate a child from her/his mother.
BFirst, polygamy can be restricted in Nikah nama. 2nd thing, no, a woman is not required to accept it she most definitely can leave.Women can get khula even if the husband was not at fault or abusive.
BThough religiously a man I’d supposed to give dowry/ mehr.In India, Muslim families do give dowry to men like everyone else because of culture.
BA Muslim woman can secure khula through Muslim jurist even if the husband does not agree. Even if there is no abuse or any fault of the husband ( though in this case it is )She can either return the mehr or give anything that he has given her within the marriage. There is no weight on her if she can’t afford too much. She can give what she can.
Go to a Islamic leader, often times they might discourage your sister from divorce or even try to make you believe that ypu can’t divorce the husband without hid consent but that’s not true so don’t believe them. Find someone who is willing to grant khula.
Your sister also has the right to alimony during the iddah and child support until the child grows up into an adult. You can seek both.
Also, contact multiple NGOs if he has political power.
B1.) Get all your documents sorted. Your Adhar card, any other identity proof, class 10th and 12th marksheet.2) You are 18 try to open a bank account. Many banks including sbi let you open no cost bank accounts.
3) Record abuse and don’t just save it on your phone. Put it on one drive or Gmail etc.
4) Make few trustable people around aware of your situation. They don’t necessarily have to be involved bit maybe ask for financial help.
5) Contact several NGO’s around you aswell as NGO’s in the cities around you. But be careful don’t ever give anyone your real identity card or info and inform them of your situation, and see if they can advice you about anything.
6) Look for someone who you know personally, preferably a woman to help you get out. Leave the village and maybe towards a city.
7) Don’t trust just anyone, always be alert, know where you are being taken, be aware of your location, and if you are able to open a bank account only keep your money in it.
Fact check places, jobs and people before making a decision
BBhai yaha par log thode pagla gaye hai kya..? Instead of focusing on him beating her up and abusing her they are more focused on the number of dogs…?He didn’t want the dogs, he shouldn’t have married her, it was as simple as that.
Also I would understand him changing his mind when he actually has to live with the dogs and having a conversation about it but the motherfucker is beating her for that.
It’s about control. Obviously, the dogs are inconvenient, but he just wants to set the dynamic of the relationship.
There is no sane option other than divorce, she should count her blessings that he showed who he is before they had a kid. Fuck his life and get him jailed.
BDarling, are you trying to advise me to be prejudiced instead of looking at individual situations….?You wouldn’t like it if I actually became prejudiced based on general statistics.
