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CMurder betrayal deceit are all human nature
So is forgiving kindness moving on.There is a reason the aggrieved is not the judge.
Nobody deserves advice/discouragement till the extent of their likes or dislikes spectrum. Advice is a bitter pill.
When you say she wants to know her best options you mean she wants to know
1. what’s the consensus of people giving advice filing for alimony.
2. What’s the consensus of people giving advice how much can her friend lowball the guy and get away with it.Sadly, any consensus out here isnt accurate in the real world. There are many potryaing to have views inimical to how they and their families operate in the real world. But project a reality which they think they might want to live in. Or use, it as grounds to ally with aggrieved or folks who think of themselves as victims.
Or, someone may have bought in to this.CClearly not.
Just look at the voting patterns in stories such as these.Women on reddit get the benefit of doubt or are publically shamed into considered an alternate scenario
Men on reddit get downvoted and branded.CYou don’t need adultery as a reason to file for divorce.
If you think the husband will contest the divorce.Law are in your cousins favour to encourage to agree to uncontested divorce should she want to.
Personally, ask your cousin what she wants.
Only confront the husband if you prepared to go all the way.As for you, try not to get too involved right now. Let them figure this out.
CI think, it may be as much legal as it was when SC said aadhar card is not mandatory for certain services.So, it appears to certainly not be legal.
CI think, they can afford to do it.
Because even if you choose to not do so, there will be thousands ready to do so.They are aware of their leverage over the candidate(s)
I must encourage you to think, do you have similar or better offers elsewhere ?
Do you have enough resources to support you and your family without this offer. If yes, you have the luxury to have principles based out of privacy.
CIsn’t that what is happening here enough people will encourage the OP to come on a consensus. Which in turn will encourage him to make a decision.same thing, with the boy and his family.
One can be made to realise the error in their ways.
It’s not the OP’s job.The way one frames words is likely to induce similar reaction. if one thinks victim it’s output is justice.
If one thinks misguided it’s output is correction.To many irregularities here.
Advice given to go to the police to FIR to OP he is nowhere involved in this, we are giving legal advice because something is legally permissible.Let’s get off moral highground. Everyday you can go to the court file an PIL against the things that are wrong. Few do. Most talk on twitter/reddit about it.
Let’s see what happens when you do.
1. Trouble for the boy. Legally, criminally his family will most likely distance themselves from this child to save themselves. This boy child is alone.
2. Girl is going to be branded a victim forever, I’m not sure it’s anyone else’s prerogative to do that for her. Protecting her and doing justice for her are too very different things.
Something has happened to her, let her decide if she wants to make that her identity to the world. If the argument is she is only 12 she doesn’t know better. That’s a similar argument society had years ago to get people married off when they were younger because that collective society believed adults know better.
3. I don’t know how society improves through this.CI think, you know it’s a scam.
If you are looking for other people who have also be scammed in a similar way, hope you find them here soon.Might be easier to file an complaint.
CEveryone out here thinks filing an fir is the correct thing to do. Or atleast on theory every one is voting for it. everyone likes poetic justice as an observer.How many are willing to agree for justice when they have been guilty or their loved ones, to say for sure if none of your loved ones has done something similar at some point of time to someone else. Would you still want to file a fir ?
I think, social awareness of what is happening is important to the boy and his family. Bring in people which have stead in society that can talk to the families about their child’s behaviour. Every reasonable person will not condone such an act. You mention he is an addict, create enough momentum that he recognises the fallout of his actions on himself and others.
If none of these do not gain traction, the legal route remains an option.
