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DIf he is doing that and thinks that it will protect him from any payouts during divorce proceedings, he is highly mistaken. Any assets he has bought after marriage will be scrutinized and the source of funds will be identified. They are professionals and you should seek professional help. There are lots of things that border of narcisstic behaviour and you need a professional’s help.DYou can start by speaking to a lawyer. I am NAL but you need to speak to a divorce lawyer and possibly an NGO that helps women since your husband’s family seem to be quite moneyed. I think, and this is pure speculation, that the family not talking to you amounts to abuse. I can also speculate that not giving a study table and a bookshelf amounts to financial abuse. However its best that a lawyer clarifies these things. Your husband has to stay in the confines of his family dynamics or his pocket money gets cut off (assuming he is in the family business) since he keeps saying “family situation”. You need professional advice stat.DNAL but I would suggest you get a lawyer. Find out the necessary course of action and how to protect yourself against your father. If he can complain of absenteeism and neglect then you have a lot to say about that considering he left you at 15. However, a gambler is a desperate man and desperate men do desperate things so it would be advisable to get the counsel of a lawyer.
Also, tell him not to call you again and block his number.DDon’t do anything yet. They won’t do anything. Wait for this to blow over. Cut contact with the girl. Parents of the girl will think twice about making this public because it will affect their reputation (among family, friends and neighbours) more than it will screw you. Until they make the first move, don’t do anything. Once they do, inform your parents immediately. They’ll handle it. I don’t see anything illegal here if it was consensual.DYou can refuse to pay duty. You can also ask them to re-assess the value if you believe that it was truly worth $99.DSuggest you wait it out. You’re still very young and so is your girlfriend. You both are in different cities. Bro, I hate to be the one to tell you this but things are not adding up. Before you do anything irrational, wait it out a bit.DSorry but didn’t the promoter threaten to come to the OP’s house? I think all gloves are off if these things are done.DIf I were you, I’d go to the station and apologise. Say it was a mistake and it won’t happen again. They’ll give you a bit of a scolding but it won’t be escalated. I wouldn’t risk an FIR being filed. They have too much information to just let it go. Next thing you know is that you’re applying for a passport or applying to go abroad and this thing shows up. Nah man, I wouldn’t risk it,DIf their boys worked very hard then they wouldn’t make these mistakes. Of course you need the compensation. You did a lot of work to understand what was going on and did all the right things. Most people would have given up a long time back or simply not known the procedure to make these thug banks accountable. Once they’re caught, they’re begging for leniency. No. Don’t give in. Make them pay. Do it for us.DNAL. Ignore him. This shouldn’t escalate further. And don’t move into any flats or have contact with him. You have already filed a diary so if things do escalate, you can file an FIR. You should have filed an FIR to begin with and he would have gotten a nice thrashing from his father for wasting his time. This is too small an issue for any big players to be involved.DRelocation is a good idea. Therapy is also a good idea. Maybe do therapy once you’ve relocated. Family is toxic and probably adds to your anxiety. A sport, like the ones we spoke about, is also a good idea. I hope you find peace and once you do, let’s hope you’re not in a position where you need to clobber someone. Best of luck.DWhat’s the questionable history? Is it outbursts? Need more context. As long as you don’t go out and murder someone, you should be fine no matter what your history is. Also, kickboxing, muy thai, bbj are all good. Let’s hope we don’t see a day when you have to actually use it for self defence. Also, if not anything else, it might help you get mental stability. You come across as very anxious.
