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HYes, he’s in serious legal trouble. What heās doing is not just harassment, it’s criminal intimidation, cyberstalking, and sending sexually explicit threats. You’ve done the right thing by filing an online complaint. Now file an FIR in person with all screenshots and call logs, this guy seriously needs to be taught a lesson.
Sections that apply:
IPC 506 (criminal intimidation)
IPC 354A & 509 (sexual harassment and insulting modesty)
IT Act 67 (obscene content)
IPC 507 (anonymous threats)
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HYeah man, that’s utterly disgustingāpicking up the shitty water from the commode to teach someone a lesson and then expecting them not to react.HBro, you did invite trouble. In India, people legit think the public road in front of their house belongs to them. As long as someone isnāt blocking your gate, technically, itās not illegal. Yeah, itās annoying, but throwing dirty water on their cars? Thatās wild. Of course theyāre going to react. You shouldāve gone the legal route instead. Now that theyāre threatening you, file an FIR immediately. Donāt take the law in your own hands again, it just makes things worse for you.HSince you want to follow Sharia law, maybe start by clearly understanding what each heir is actually entitled to. A proper Islamic scholar or legal advisor who knows about Muslim inheritance laws can help you figure that out. Sometimes, just having that clarity can calm things down or at least give you a solid ground to stand on.But yeah, your fear about her possibly filing false dowry or harassment cases is valid. That does happen, and sadly, it can turn things nasty fast. So even if you donāt want to go legal, maybe just consult a good lawyer who has experience with both civil law and Muslim personal law quietly, someone who can guide you on how to protect your family without escalating things unnecessarily.
If things can be settled through family mediation or a trusted elder, try that route first. But definitely keep records of all interactions with her, just to be safe.
HGet a better lawyer, ASAP. This one clearly doesnāt get it. What youāve described, financial abuse, addiction, lying, emotional manipulation is more than enough for a contested divorce under cruelty.
Start collecting all proof: credit reports, messages, bills, anything that shows the pattern. And get a lawyer who actually knows matrimonial law. Youāre doing the right thing.HThere is a huge difference between natural death and suicide, and it does impact the buyer’s decision most of the time in India. So, don’t give random advice.HYes, you can file an FIR even after three days, especially since you have medical evidence and proof of threats. Go directly to the Superintendent of Police (SP) or file a complaint online if you fear bias at the local station. Mention the past threats, medical report, and any proof of his intimidation. Also, if you know his drug sources, tipping off the police could help build a stronger case against him. Unfortunately, false cross FIRs are common in such cases, so gather all evidence, voice notes, messages, and medical reports. If your brother has police contacts, consider involving a lawyer to ensure your complaint is taken seriously.HUnfortunately, adultery is no longer a criminal offense in India. However, OP’s mother can use it as a ground for divorce and it may influence decisions on alimony, maintenance, and custody.HYour mother can file a complaint under the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005 to seek protection orders, residence rights, and financial support.For *Financial assistance,* she can also file a case under Section 125 CrPC to claim maintenance for both of you.
Since your father’s actions are abusive, filing an FIR under Sections 323, 506, 509, or 498A of the IPC can help ensure accountability. Additionally, she can pursue custody of your sister through the Guardians and Wards Act, 1890, and apply for a restraining order if necessary.
For legal aid and counseling, reach out to organizations like Sakhi One Stop Centres, National Commission for Women (NCW), or your local District Legal Services Authority (DLSA). Keeping evidence like medical reports, photographs, or threatening messages can strengthen your case.
HGet a CCTV setup if you can, itās worth it for peace of mind and evidence. Also, think about adopting an indie dog instead of a fancy breed. Theyāre tough, smart, and super protective once they bond with you. Having a dog around can be a huge deterrent.Since the police arenāt helping, keep records of everything, photos, videos, anything suspicious. If it escalates, youāll have proof. And if the local cops are compromised, try reaching out to higher authorities.
HThis is the worst advice Iāve ever heard, especially coming from someone with a family of advocates. Speaking from a place of privilege, you seem entirely disconnected from reality. Do you even understand how tough it is for someone to change their identity, move to a random city, and take up an unfulfilling job? Suggesting that a victim should uproot their entire life instead of holding the perpetrator accountable is beyond absurd. I genuinely hope you aren’t under any influence while giving such reckless advice.HYes, you have legal options. First, send a legal notice (cheap and sometimes enough to make them act). If that fails, file a complaint with the National Consumer Helpline and escalate to consumer court (low cost, strong case since you paid for a service). Also, put pressure through social media and reviews. If their policy allows refunds in such cases, donāt let them get away with it.HSuing under the Consumer Protection Act is tricky, but if there’s clear fraud (like taking money without filing a case), a police complaint under IPC 406 (criminal breach of trust) is still an option. The Bar Council route is tough, but filing a complaint puts pressure. At the very least, confronting the lawyer and demanding proof might push him to refund some money.HYouāve been scammed. Drop this lawyer immediately. Demand proof of case filingāif he fails, send a legal notice. File complaints with the Bar Council, I Consumer Forum, and even the police (Sections 406 & 420 IPC) if needed.Visit or get a local contact to check if any case is actually filed in your name. You can also search online on the Uttar Pradesh e-Courts website (https://services.ecourts.gov.in).
Hire a new lawyer, but this time, be carefulāno cash, everything in writing. You may not recover the money, but donāt let this guy waste more of your time.
HFile a police complaint to create a record, and if he keeps troubling you, get a restraining order. Since heās in the Army, reporting him to his senior officer might also help. When building your new house, install CCTV, take security measures, and increase the height of your boundary wall to block his window view. Donāt wait, act now before things escalate.
