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MI made this mistake once. I was totally fine with a girl, and then started listening to what problems others had with her, when they also had no clear idea of what the concern was – certainly my loss.
Don’t concern yourself with nonsense, save that beautiful brain for solving real problems and achieving your dreams.MFollowing u/Visual-Maximum-8117 ‘s comment:olx sale gone wrong. Can the buyer come to my house with police? Or, the police don’t have jurisdiction because it is a civil case?
# ChatGPT said:
If an OLX sale goes wrong, whether the police can come to your house depends on the **nature of the dispute**—**criminal or civil**:
# 🚨 1. If it’s a civil matter (e.g., dispute over item quality, refund demand):
* **Police generally do not have jurisdiction.** Civil matters are for **civil courts**, not the police.
* A buyer can **file a civil suit** against you but **cannot involve police directly**.
* Police cannot **force you** to refund or reverse a sale in such cases.# 🔍 2. If it’s a criminal matter (e.g., fraud, cheating, misrepresentation with intent):
* The buyer may lodge an **FIR under Section 420 IPC** (cheating) or similar.
* If the police find **prima facie evidence of criminal intent**, they **can visit your house** for questioning, or to serve notice, and in serious cases, make arrests.
* But even then, **they must follow due process**—they cannot harass you without a valid legal basis.# ✅ What You Should Do:
* **Stay calm** if someone threatens to call the police. Ask them to **send legal notice** or proceed legally.
* If police do come, you can **cooperate respectfully**, ask for the **FIR details**, and consult a lawyer.
* **Keep records** of chats, payments, and item condition to protect yourself.Would you like to share what specifically went wrong in the sale so I can advise more precisely?
MSexuality, sexual relationships, and cheating in one, are not things that are a priority in the first 5 years of child development.
In the first 5 years, and in fact in the rest of our lives, physical and emotional needs like hunger, thirst, safety, validation, and coddling, are a higher priority. The child is not able to communicate these, so there is no replacement for its mother. In fact, the reason women become irritable after delivering is because their brain permanently changes and becomes more sensitive to high-pitch sounds. So, even if the dad can hear the exact same sound of the child crying, and even if she is equally tired as him, she would still wake up and shush the baby.Additionally, according to attachment theory, the way one is treated in the first 5 years of their life becomes the blueprint of how they would behave in romantic relationships throughout the rest of their life. And I have seen how easy it is for men to ignore those subtle needs of a weak, voiceless child and saying, “Oh let him cry. Children cry,” without even giving a second thought if he is crying out of hunger, sleep deprivation, or a stomach ache.
So yes, if in the future the child is not able to find a suitable partner according to their attachment style and not able to modify their behavior so that they are closer to a secure attachment, yes, they would become cheaters too. Not because they saw someone cheating at the age of 5, but more because they were never taught to get out of their pattern of unmet emotional needs on time.
MBelow 5 years, there is NO CHANCE for custody to the husband. This is also supported by psychologists for the welfare of the child.MThe biggest issue is why did the social media suggest this video on her feed. If a joke has crossed into PORN category, they should have allow the audience to have filters for that.MThis seems like a platform issue? The way Tiktok was removed, Insta can be held accountable.Are there enough NSFW settings suited for you?
Can you report and suggest the platform on the content in your feed so that you don’t see anything like this in the future?Also, half of the abuses known to man are about sexual assault only, why look at his content as if his content is worse than anything we have heard in the past?
MAfter hearing the 10k story, well, this is obvious none of this is worth another thought!I did this last 6 months – block all unknown numbers on Truecaller – you know what I missed out on? Nothing! And this was when I was expecting job offers – I just accepted that I will wait for emails and LinkedIn messages only – there I could control when I opened them.
I would see Delivery missed calls (it gives notifications later) of 13 calls etc., but so what? If you want your MENTAL PEACE, sometimes you have to let go of worrying about the rest of the world. Otherwise, you are no good to others anyways.
Another thing – nobody was rude to me! I remember people who called twice being rude about the address. But when I decided I don’t give a fuck about anyone, suddenly people appeared meeker and gentler. I mean, lol, the way that guy told me – “Sir, I called 13 times”, he was so.. nice – as if he understood – either I am upset and not to be messed with, or if I get upset, I am not to be messed with.
On the other question:
That society had both entry and exit fee. It was a little posh, but they always maintained standards in amenities. No such thievery like festival fee, etc.
