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PThereâs literally photos of Bajrang dal protesting Valentineâs Day and harassing couples on streets in yesterdays newpapers lmao. Which rock are you under that you want to give them a benefit of doubt đđđ if you doubt it, get out and see for yourself, visit your nearest branch and ask them what did they do 2 days ago.PI hope you take the right way instead of the easy way.
Right way being hiring an advocate and letting him handle everything, you just have to show up once or twice. Property release application process is usually easy. Shouldnât take more than 2-3 weeks to get your scooter.
Easy way being pay up 2k to one of the lower hawaldars at the chowki, get it done within a week
PJust putting it out there for awareness, pretty sure you arenât going to take any actions after reading all the other commentsPNAL1. Keep a dashcam in general no matter what
2. Thereâs no anonymous FIR option for hiding identity but you can do a few things – ask the police to hide identity during investigation, using 3rd parties or ngo, only cyber crime complaint has anonymous option, writing to senior authorities, whistle blowing agencies.
3. FIR can cover 5 odd violations in this case, misuse of arms act, criminal intimidation 503, 506, endangering lives 336.P1. Get a lawyer, Get an pre-FIR anticipatory bail (difficult but could be justified with a good lawyer)
2. File a fraud & harassment FIR against the girl with your lawyers help
3. Get hard evidences to support your claimsPNAL.1. Get an advocate and take his help to file an FIR with the police for fraud, extortion, harassment. If you can get some evidence or background info on her to back up your claims, thatâll make a strong case.
2. Get an anticipatory bail in case they decide to put a dowry case on you.
3. Go for settlement, going to trail may mean youâll be stuck for a few years and at the end court may still say that youâve to pay something to her (if not 37L itâll still be a sizeable amount).But remember, if youâve been at fault and not saying the full story in this post, and if they come at you all with strong evidences, court will take the girls side.
Court cases are basically games of strong arming each other, who ever does it better wins. And usually, whoever does it first wins. Sorry for your loss, All the best.
Pitâs not illegal, its just not recognised. Meaning, you can openly be gay with your partner & the govt wonât put you in jail like some middle eastern / African countries do.Whatâs the loss?
The definition of marriage doesnât include same sex couples as of today, so you wonât get the benefits that married folks get – because the system hasnât updated / figured out how to implement it. So most laws / benefits around marriage wonât apply to you. Youâll miss out on tax benefits, joint accounts or loans, marital or divorce laws, alimony concepts etc.Whatâs next?
The judiciary & parliament has to work together to pass a bill & law which defines gay couples & based on how they define it, gay couple may or may not get all the benefits mentioned above.You can still get married in a sentimental sense, throw a big fat Indian wedding, but if you go to a court for a marriage certificate, you wonât get it, but I hear the closest certificate for gay couples is some affidavit / agreement which states you both will live together. Govt or law wonât punish you for being gay
PDo a little background check. Raise a cyber complaint, take the complaint ID and go to the nearest police station and ask them to register a complaint for harassment and assault. Theyâll take their own time, but considering itâs a female case, they may expedite it sooner. Have a nice word with the hawaldars and pay them âgood willâ from time to time and follow up with them. These guys will help you prioritise this case.Remember, no one helps by themselves, youâve to follow up – simple call or frequent visits.
PYou canât do anything. They own you till youâre 18. Even if you run away, they can file a police complaint and get you back.PNot a lawyerNote: Donât get stuck with lawyers on Reddit, lot of fraud stories off this page. Meet someone in person.
Gather all evidences for what youâre claiming. Simply filing a divorce case wonât be super helpful. Itâll end up adding more tension to your household till case gets settled.
Reach a lawyer, with his help file a police case and ask them to add everything to the charge sheet that you can provide evidence for, if you donât have proofs, theyâll still add it but then opposition will waste a lot of time trying to disprove it, better put everything with supporting evidence. Evidence could be text, call recordings, bank accounts. The part where your earnings go to his account will be a crucial one.
Reach out to NGOs so they can provide you a temporary stay. After the initial hearings, your temporary alimony would start. Thereâs no concept of child custody because heâs over 18. Also depending how it works out, no child support, may be post majority child support because your sons studying & may be till heâs unemployed but all that depends on how the court sees it.
Once the hearings are scheduled, youâll get an option to either settle the case or go to trial. Based on what youâve mentioned, settlement may be a better option – no alimony, just 1 time payment. Because if it goes to trials, youâll get a temporary alimony of 5-10k or something and eventually a proper alimony and asset split will be decided which could take years. His income is 6L, settlement may be around 20-25L. Settlement may be better imo.
If the settlement goes through, have a restraining order against the husband for your own safety.
All in all youâve to go to the court with a narrative, a problem (reason for divorce) and a solution (need x amount for son, sustaining life style till son is independent and can tc of mom). Court will listen to both sides and order whatâs fair.
All the best
I hope this is a genuine case but idc if it isnt. This can still be useful for people in similar situations.
PNALGet a lawyer, file an FIR, if they donât add everything to your chargesheet, file a complaint in your civil court and keep it simple. Focus on retrieving the money, not making him construct your home. Get all transaction proofs.
Itâll mostly fall under civil case so no point waiting for the case to be finished. Get a new worker.
Ask the lawyer if he can manage to make it into a criminal or harassment case which can push him to settle quickly.
All the best.
PDoes anyone even know why it was really cancelled?I saw a comment on CASs post where a girl said she travelled from indoor to Bangalore on a 30 hour bus and found out itâs cancelled at the last moment and had to travel 30 hours back on a bus. Parents didnât know she was 1300kms away, borrowed from friends, travelled alone in a bus – dumping all that frustration on CAS lol.
lots of dumb decisions irrespective of the cancellations. But imagine the disappointment of hellbent fans who took all that risk for no reward. Really impacts musicians all over when the audiences morale takes a hit
Iâm not sure what youâre gonna do but full support
PAnyone a dead person spoke to is a suspect. Parents, teachers, lovers, colleagues. Keep good evidences, texts, recordings etc for your own sake. Additionally if she threatens, simply tell her parents. Saving your own ass etc is obvious. But leaving someone to die under any circumstances isnât the right choice. If she threatens, tell her parents (assuming youâre a teen). If sheâs over 21, telling the parents wonât be enough, file a police complaint or wellfares, theyâll follow up with her mental health and well being and you donât have to do anything. Just make sure youâve 0 contact with her after doing all this
