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PYou can file a criminal case of cheating criminal breach of trust. That will ensure that she has to come to the court on every hearing. You can engage a lawyer to represent you and not go personally to the court. Keep on dragging the case on one pretext or the other, that will frustrate her and she may return you some money.PAre you trying to tell me that a random woman can walk in to the police station and file a rape case against a random man and she will be able to get through with the FIR? There is always more connection to be proved than a long distance relationship. Secondly complainant has to submit evidence which the accused has to disprove. Merely a statement is not evidence.PYou’re under no obligation. Your phone number was taken from Social media as you have an open friend list. Close your friend list and if he calls again, just tell him that you tried calling but the person doesn’t pickup the call. Ask him to Stop calling you.PLaw works differently in the courtroom. Everything is taken seriously based on evidence. Rape allegation will also have to be proven in the court.PWrite an email to her stating that as she is ghosting you and you presume that she would like to move on, she should return the necklace and ring which you purchased on her behalf as per attached receipts.
Wait for 2 weeks, after that, you wrote to her that if the noted items are not returned, you will be compelled to file a police complaint of cheating and criminal breach of trust.
After that you can take legal action by sending her a legal notice. I think she will return you the stuff once she receives a legal notice.
PNC means non cognizable report. So she’s not filing a complaint, she has just made a record entry so that tomorrow if your friend tries to reach out to her, she can file an FIR.By filing an NC, she is politely telling him to back off or it will get legally messy. She has clarified her stance that she wants him out immediately. This shows that either she’s being legally advised or she has prior experience in such acts.
It is recommended that whatever money he has spent should be written off against educational expenses, certified by life’s university.
Ask him to wait for a couple of months before trying to contact her. He is emotionally riled up against a calculative woman ready to play chess with his life. He should back off immediately.
Tell him that there’s no free lunch in life and she will payback in due course and then she will want to come back to him. Hello should be emotionally strong enough to be able to reject her
PAny evidence you could retain of her criminal intimidation? If yes, and if you’re willing to go on a one way road, file a case of criminal intimidation against her. But remember, there’s no salvaging your relationship after that. I say this because I am not privy to the details of your marital life. Better refrain if you’re still living together. Criminal cases should be the last resort.PYou eloped to have sex at her reputational, emotional and psychological cost? Gues what? You’re a psychopath and deserve to be criminally indicted.Marry her or now it’s time for her family to have sex with your life.
PYou should go to the police station and hear out what they say. If they ask for money, you can always say that the matter was settled amicably through a mutual settlement wherein Rs. 4500 you transferred and nothing happened thereafter. Now after 20 days they’re asking for more money, you have consulted your friend who is a lawyer and he states that this seems like a case of criminal intimidation. Say all this very innocently.Because they had got the X ray done and everything was found to be okay. Now they’re blackmailing you and subjecting you to criminal intimidation.
If they ask for a copy of settlement, you can always say that the settlement happened on the telephone call after which you transferred the money to the women.
My suggestion to you is based on the statement made by you wherein you’re staying that she was found to be not injured
PSis, you have my complete sympathy. Lack of knowledge of how the law works often creates this issue.Firstly the law works differently, the labour commission will never provide you more relief than you ask for. If you do not specifically ask for maternity leave benefits in your application and prayer, they will not provide you the relief for the same.
Anyways, my suggestion to you is that you should contact your former reporting manager or HR and say that you would like to make a compromise with the company.
Talk to them humbly and tell them that you would like to compromise and move on and be willing to make a refund if needed. I am sure that they will have a more humane approach and soften their stance once they see you’re willing to make amends.
My genuine suggestion to you is that wasting time in court where you’re an accused in a criminal case takes all the juice out of your life. Add to that an infant child who deserves all the love and attention and care of a loving mother. You will forever be combative and that will affect your relationship with your child who will grow up to resent you. All this is not worth gaining a few lakhs of rupees which is already drained in fighting a futile legal battle leading you nowhere….
PI’m not giving legal advise here. I am telling the OP to make amends out of court and live her life. I do not want to discuss biology here, but you probably do not know that no one announces they’re pregnant on missing their first periodicals. It’s always announced after the first trimester because before that it is unstable. So bump smuggling could have been an issue.I’m being practical when I say that it will be foolish to expect a company to pay 6 months paid maternity leave for 6 months of work. It’s not like she was working there for 5 to 10 years. She could have worked around by asking for a work from home position or a part time position. But she chose to legally fight, which effectively means that she had planned to take the company to the cleaners should they not agree to give her a free ride and now she’s facing retribution.
The joining letter usually has a clause about pregnancy but it’s not maintainable by law, so she took them to court and got the money. It would be foolish on her part that there would be no retribution when they have been wronged.
I’m not talking about the law, I’m talking about real life. What the OP did was through and through morally wrong and while she is suffering the consequences, he innocent child is suffering for no fault of his.
