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QBribe the police, works like magic.
Also hire a local lawyer that knows some senior officials in the station.
QAll the best to you.Keep 10-20K cash in hand when you visit the station, it helps expedite the process.
QGet a good ass lawyer, go to the police station and bribe them.Ensure her family, along with her are dragged into the station and they bloody give it in writing that they will not harass you guys again.
File a bloody restraining order if you have to. And tell them clearly that you’ll file a case for defamation and also communicate the number of years they’ll be behind bars if they file a false rape charge.
(Ensure you share all the proof, call recordings and exchanged messages from your brother to her.
Also ad proof of your parents visiting her family to convince for the alliance.)
It’s better you reach out to the cops before they do.
QNo.A suicide note does not amount as evidence. If someone’s committing suicide they’re considered to be of unstable mind and what they say cannot be used as evidence.
She’s just threatening you to get you back.
Also suicide is illegal.If she mentions it again, tell her you’ll file a police complaint against her and get the police to call her parents. That should calm her tits.
QHire a kickass lawyer.Negotiate outside the court and ensure it leads to mutual consent.
Keep all communication timelines handy, call records, messages, if there’s proof of her past relationship in writing, nothing better.
There’s many grounds for divorce, however the court proceedings will stretch and waste 2-3 years of your life and a lot of money.
Instead try and negotiate outside, pay some money to get rid of her if that’s what it takes, it’ll save you some peace of mind.
Discuss with your lawyer and ensure she doesn’t press criminal charges.
Good luck.
QYou don’t need evidence.The burden of proof lies with the accused.
Discuss with your parents before you take any steps.
QYou’re only obligated to pay those loans if you want a part of his properties.The government will otherwise size what was mortgaged. If you don’t care about the assets, you don’t have to repay those loans.
No inheritance, no burned of repayment.
QGo to the cops, bribe them 10K, they’ll get your money.Take someone local, if there’s someone you know that has contacts at the station, nothing like it.
QYou are both adults, and no one can stop you from getting married.To address your concerns:
1. They cannot stop you from living together or take any legal action. However, you’ve to be 100% sure that the girl will not get swayed by her parents and turn against you. She can later file a rape case against you.
2. You can go to the court and get married, no one can stop you, you are adults. However, you’ll need two witnesses, ask your parents to sign for you.
3. You can ask the police for protection only when there are threats from her family to harm any of you. The police will provide protection in such a case.
The best way out is to convince her parents and get your parents/ their relatives/ other adults to talk to them. No parent wants to see their child unhappy, they will come around.
It will take time, but they’ll understand. Please ensure your gf is ready to face the consequences if you guys plan to elope. It will be mentally and emotionally difficult for her to leave her parents and get disowned by them.
Please sit down and discuss all the consequences before you take any action, this will be the most important decision you guys will ever make in your lifetime.
All the best!
QGet a very good lawyer.Go for mutual consent divorce.
I don’t think they’ll want you to stay or take care of the child with that attitude. You’ll be free in no time.
If they create an issue tell them you’ll claim alimony, they’ll just let you go in peace.
Be very very strong emotionally, connect with parents and friends who’ll have your back.
Here’s to hoping you get through this.
