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SYou should look if there are any ngo in the area who work for elderly. See if they can help to sort out the matter.SOnly you’re concerned? What are all adults doing? Her husband? Her parents? Her siblings? Her other close relatives? They didn’t report anything to police yet? What are these dark web links that you received on WhatsApp? Which site they exactly lead to?SBlock everyone related to him and don’t pick up phone from unknown number for couple months no matter how many calls come. Do not open unknown WhatsApp chat either.SIf it’s for sentimental value try sweet approach. Go to the kids house again. Apologise for your previous behaviour. Tell them how much sentimental value it holds and you would like to talk to the kid once more in case he was earlier scared and that you’d keep it confidential and reward kid handsomely for keeping it safe in such rush if kid actually remembers anything about the ring. See if the kid and family talks in that caseSHire PI and get the bride profile checked, in case anything hidden. Also a detailed chat about how bride sees financial responsibility and money should help to know what to expect when shit goes south.SFor help you need to give more context as in what kind of blackmail they are doing. What’s their medium of blackmailing, are they sending texts/emails/in person threats/public threats. What are these threats. What caused them to do this to you, I mean the first time they did it what happened then. If there are other victims likes you. Then someone can suggest you the course of action. This does not tell us anyone anything. General solution would be to talk with student committee in college and see if they can help resolve it amicably.SPick it up on other social media forums especially on their brand pages. Maybe they will be interested in negotiating to avoid PR damage.SThat’s logical but people who helped, helped in good faith. So not giving the money back would have meant souring the relationships which is costlier than 20k.SI’m sorry this happened to you. But as of now not much. You can call child helpline tell them what was done to you and see if they follow through the case. Second is go to police station and file FIR for abuse once you turn 18. But it won’t amount to much as police will most likely talk and close the case. If you really wanna pursue this, you need to focus on studies and get a good paying job. Then you can sue through lawyer in court. But all of this will take time. Right now what you need is healing. It must be hard when no one close to you shows you care but focus on good things in the life. Focus on what good can come into life if you work towards it. Try letting go of what was done. Holding too much in is what hurts the most and makes your life sadder. If you let the hurt go you could have whole life of new possibilities where they can’t reach. Focus on that.SAs his parents are complete failure at parenting nothing much can be done. Tell him to steer clear of his sister. Keep minimal contact. If she comes sit next to him, just stand up and go sit somewhere. She asks or says something unless it’s necessary question keep mum. Keep it distant but cordial with family. Be patient until he is old enough to get job and be independent. Then get the fuck out of there. If he can go to hostel for studies even better. Outside bullies can be fought but inside are hard.SThere are no bonds in legit IT company. No real company asks you to pay upfront for anything. If they do they are scam always. Never go for companies who ask for bonds or your original documents.SAs long as you have never sent anything romantic or even vague messages that can be interpreted as romantic from your side you would be fine. So if they send cryptic reels, don’t react on them. Just ignore. Also you can simply put in words like you like “xxx” girl preferably someone they don’t know previously or related to in life (say it even if you don’t actually have a crush) so these girls realise you aren’t interested in them and can move on.
