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SYou had sex with an EMPLOYEE. It doesn’t matter if it’s your friend’s wife. Power dynamic ofcourse comes into play. You don’t fare well in this situation no matter how you put it across. If it’s not abundantly clear, stop doing whatever you’re upto and try maintaining a professional relationship hence on.SFirst, decide to walk out. Decide you HAVE to do that for your own sanity.
Talk to a lawyer. This is gonna be tricky. You would need evidence that you have not been involved in anything physical and also no gifts/ cash have been exchanged which could be perceived as dowry.
Think it like this, all the drama that would create would be short-term. But if you go ahead with the wedding, the drama will follow you ALL YOUR LIFE.
You are an adult and NO ONE else should take a decision on your behalf. I have been through this (I cancelled just before the engagement so it was a little simpler) and you are gonna be fine. Your parents will throw the worst fits, rona-dhona, emotional blackmail. But you gotta be firm. Abhi jhuk jaoge to puri zindagi jhukke rehna padega.
For emotional support, immediately start therapy. They can guide you through the stress and also give you tips on how to handle manipulation from your parents.
SMen be like marriage laws are lopsided and then do shit like this.This is why alimony laws are required. If you didn’t intend to be an adult and consummate your marriage and be the husband you are required to be, why would you marry? You have no right to ruin a woman’s life like this. The girl isn’t educated and unfortunately didn’t have the means to stand up for herself.
What do you mean your family forced you? You have degrees, you are independent? Did they hypnotise and make you sign the papers/ take the pheras?
