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WKeep the screenshots, keep her blocked and go on with your life.
If she does anything, you have proof in writing that she’s a nutbag who is just angry and lying.
WSomeone very close to me is going through this now. Your family should file counter cases against her and her family.WI stopped reading at some point because I got the gist of the post.The laws in India are made for women like you. You can get a divorce and won’t have to give him a cent. If anything, you will walk away with money/property in all likelihood. File a FIR against him. Go to the women’s cell.
Go see a good lawyer (who isn’t related to you) and get some concrete answers vs. listening to relatives and hypothesizing scenarios. This is the question of your life, take matters into your own hands by advocating for yourself because if you don’t, no one else will.
WYou should cut ties, cut your losses and move on. Don’t take loans. Don’t give her more money. She’s an adult. Part of being an adult is having adult responsibilities.Forget the documents IMO. Just move on.
WYour mother knows what happening and chooses to turn a blind eye. Stop trying to show her something she will never see.WEverything takes a lot of time in India. Get the electricity box stolen. Case closed.
Also pay off local cops.WI’m going through this with my MIL’s property which I have a POA of. Also an NRI. You have 3 options here.
1) Pay local cops
2) Hire a lawyer and evict
3) Pay someone and get the electric box “stolen”. The tenant will need the owners cooperation to get a new box put in.I’ve done all 3.
WBlock her if you value your peace of mind. Shes an adult and is responsible for her actions. Not some random internet stranger.WWhy block her when she reaches out again? Why not avoid any additional trauma and block her now? I mean if you don’t then somewhere you are encouraging this behavior yourself too.
It takes all of 30 seconds and 1 click to block someone.WBlock her and stop speaking to her. She sounds like she has “Histrionic personality disorder” or something similar from what you describe of her.Once again, block her and move on with life. For the future, recognize that you can’t help/save everyone.
You are on a matrimonial site to find a partner. Not to be an unpaid counselor to anyone. There is an important life lesson here. Learn it.
