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ILet me tell you something i have heard of from lawyers. The husband can file a civil case against your friend for alienating his wife’s affection from him.
Adultery is no longer a crime but it is a ground for divorce.
And sadly (for the husband), the courts will say the husband is the legal father of the baby. And he will bear the responsibility of the baby.
IRightly put brother. If only the roles were reversed, the spouse doing the affair, op wouldn’t be asking for advice like this.II understand what you are trying to say. That no one should approach marriage or relationships like they’re going into a battlefield.But do one thing, reverse the roles. A girl asks what would she do if her husband turns out to be a domestic abuser, what if her inlaws torture her for dowry?
What would you say to her? That you should not step into marriage with these thoughts? Or would you say that don’t worry, law is there to protect you?
ICases like these happen to love marriages too. Love runs dry, and partners turn sour. What would you say then?No person is ever the same.
ISo, do you say to girls who ask for self defense advice: “don’t go out at night if you’re that scared of getting abused”?IFind a new lawyer and consult him? Many a times you end up with lawyers who are not interested in matrimonial cases because they drag on for years and just take it as a side project for some extra money.INo you do not wait for the final order. No one is going to tell the ex wife to pay back the extra amount paid.No one knows how long final order will take. You do not wait until then. You immediately go to the higher court. Show them you followed due process and the judge did not.
II suffered this problem a few years ago. Sent 1000rs to a charitable organization and the payment failed. The money left my account but it showed payment failed.Google support asked me to submit my bank statement to show the money was debited and their bank statement to show money wasn’t credited. Obviously the organization did not give me their bank statement and google just ate my 1000rs
Later on I learnt that one should use the bank’s own upi system to prevent this kind of issue.
ITrue. You know, a couple weeks ago I had this hypocrisy of theirs stun me. The first news I saw was of this boy getting beaten up in the court, the one I mentioned above. And the very next news was how in the neighboring state, another hindu organization, themselves converted a muslim girl to hinduism and married her off to her hindu bf.I was like wait, a religious organization, converting a person to their religion for the purpose of marriage. Isn’t that the love jihad you fight against?
The question was rhetorical. Ofcourse, every crime is okay when you are the one to do it.
