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UWhy do people delete these posts SMH. There’s no personally identifiable info
> Recently my dad side of family including my parents went to a restaurant for my uncles anniversary celebration. The restaurant and club is opposite to eachother under same management. My aunt spotted my fiancee getting out of the club so she waved at her to invite her but she was on phone with someone and went back inside . After some time she sent my cousin sister to get her she came out in a panic that my fiance was sitting in some guys lap and chugging drinks . Then my aunt and mother went in to their surprise she was completely wasted and smoking sheesha. Gladly they didn’t make a scene and left quietly not to disrupt the anniversary dinner and later my mother called me to told me so and so . I tried calling her but her phone was switched off then my parents tried calling her parents and they didn’t answer either. After two days her mother calls my mother and ask her to forgive my fiancee as it was her first time going to club and friends tricked her into drinking and currently she’s undergoing treatment at some hospital. The same evening she texts me makes same excuse and we can meet to clear it out etc etc . My cousin sister went through her friends list to identify the guy who’s lap she was sitting and it turned out it was her ex so we called it off privately. After few days she started threatening me that her parents went into depression and it’s because of me that her father’s political carrer would be over . Now she threatens with rape case on failure of promise to marry is it possible? We didn’t had any physical intimacy
UYou don’t have to repeat the facts. I know. I’m helping you make sense of it. What’s your end game? Get the cousin imprisoned and be welcome into that family? The fact that they didn’t do something should tell you how this will play out.UDanger from whom? Think from her parent’s perspective. Your daughter has already been raped by one guy, and now another guy is after her. Would any sane parent trust you – a complete unknown? Especially if they can’t even trust their own. Just leave her alone, not only you’re making her situation worse, you’re gonna get yourself in in a rape case and have your life ruined. If her parents are that controlling they can easily get her to file a case on you. Repeat after me: You are not the white knight you think you are. You’re seriously playing with fire. Walk away while you’re still unharmed.UAgainst men, everything. Against kids, specially for this trivial issue, nothing. But again if you groom one of the male kids and have sex that kid will be jailed. Welcome to India!UYou can’t stop someone from committing a crime or doing anything for that matter if they really wanted to. Compromise will only make you lose even more dignity, they’ll blackmail you into doing more things while still holding all the leverage.Bite the bullet, come out to your parents, keep getting the offender jailed each time they break the law.
U> seems your friend’s wife wants him to divorce her, but he is refusingbingo
> there is no other way to obtain a divorce in this country
oh there is, it’s just inconvenient.. I mean can you imagine waiting 2-3 years for a non-contested divorce. Also who would give up a legally sanctioned chance at torturing your ex.
U> iska matlab ye nhi jo unke saath hota hai wo cheez wo log deserve krte hai.of course not. In an ideal world we all deserve everything we ever wished for. Some say such a world does exist outside of this one. Some also say this world is a test. One slip up and you’re reminded of your place immediately. So let’s not discuss who deserved what, we’re not the ones to judge that. What we can do, at most is uphold common sense as most of us seem to struggle even with that.
U“my dad doesn’t love me, let me remove my clothes and say hi to rich boys from out of town”GTFO with victim-loving.
UStep 1: become a woman. (man-on-man rape is not a crime in India but unnatural sex is, so even if you’re raped both of you will go to jail)U“this guy raped our daughter, life sentence pls” – her parents“thanks bhaiiya, I’ll send you sweets in jail” – her
UAgainst a woman, 15 year old male is still a man in the eyes of judiciary. Chances of you getting justice is low, but chances of you getting implicated if she files a rape case on you are high. Tread carefully. Only take steps if you have parental backing and money. _Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned_ (even if she’s in the wrong).
