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UYou can give an anonymous tip to an NGO or national commission for women.
And how they figure it out.
ULook man, I have an unpopular take on this.Legally you can do tons to stop this from happening but it will ruin your relationship with your father. And your sister will be ostracized by the rest of the family and community.
So before taking any legal action you need to look at the following and I can hand-hold for police complaints and some legal work pro-bono –
(1) If not the parents then does you sister have enough means to sustain herself through college ? Are you earning enough to be able to take care of her financial needs like education and food and shelter?
(2) If you do stop this, which is very possible thanks to the legal system, you and your sister will be ostracized from the community and your father may out fake cases against you.
Your sister and/or you may be banished from the community if child marriage is such an acceptable part of your community.(3) I, personally, have very limited experience with such archaic social norms. But from what I have seen in alwar district of Rajasthan – shit can get pretty ugly and long drawn within the family when such differences crop. So check within your community to gauge the sort of reactions you will get from vilage/community elder and if they will support your argument. Else they will just use muscle power (gunda-gardi) and go ahead with it anyway.
UIn, probably, 9 or of 10 cases it is a sign of physiological issues.
Not just mental health, it is the physical brain which is having issues.But I know someone who has an otherwise normal life, had a job in a private company, had a wife and kdi he was living with in Gurgaon.
A fairly sorted guy, and one day he confesses to a friend that he is being gangstalked and the friend reached out to me as I know lawyers and some cops.After a string of medical tests and eventually keeping a driver and additionally having cctv cameras at home and having a continuous dashcam in his car he could build a case.
Turns out his exgf from over a decade ago is the one with schizophrenia and was paying multiple PI (private investigators) to essential6stalk him with the purpose of just sharing info to her.But yeah, 9 out of 10 times the “victim” of gand stalking are dealing with psychiatric issues generally pointing to schizophrenia
UI knew someone dealing with similar issues.This is what helped him –
1. Get yourself and your medications checked. Some medications are deliriant when mixed.
2. get a driver just so that you have a person with you all the time. One some days at random start getting friends or family to join you for your journey.
3. Start informing a friend and or family about your whereabouts at all times by sharing live location and photos.
4. Be bold. Don’t click photos and videos unless you know you’ll capture it right and build concrete proof. You will need this when you go to the cops.UYes. That is straight up illegal with penalty being payment in arrears with interest to staff, penalty to government and potential jailtime of upto 2 years for repeat offenders.ULabor laws state you have to give overtime pay for the extra hours and state to state there is requirement of tea and snacks or dinner depending on the amount of overtime.Source – I run a manufacturing unit with 25 labor
ULike I said, I got distracted/confused and didn’t move the gear to neutral and left the brake in my automatic car, and the car rolled at a snails pace into the car in front of me and I immediately reversed a little and got off the car to Apologise and I did say sorry and thankfully neither cars had any damage only a few small scratches.But the older gentleman sitting in the back seat of the car started abusing me and I did not think too much of it and abused him back. Gaaliyan toh mujhe bi saari aati hai and then both of us just got back into our cars and left and went on with our lives.
I’ve had 2-3 complaints filed by me at my police station (my police station as in the one closest to my residence in my district) previously so I knew the reader at the thana.
He called me the next day asking me why was I trying to murder a judge and I didn’t get his question and then he explained that an attempt to murder charge as been given as a complaint and I will have to immediately report to the police station or else they will have to send s PCR to pick me up and that I can’t fly.I called a lawyer friend who works with a senior advocate in delhi who came with me to the police station immediately.
I was essentially asked to be within the police station till the SI does his investigation. I was honest and told the cops about my side of the story, the judge apparently told the same cops that I banged into his car to distract him and get him out of the car and then I started abusing him and threatening him and I pushed him but his driver “saved his life” and they ran away scared shitless. And that the judge had the presence of mind to note my vehicle number. I wasn’t bound or put in cuffs but was expected to be within the police station compound. I was given a bedding and was allowed home cooked meals and allowed my parents to get me bedsheets and a cover to sleep in at night.
I was presented to a magistrate on the third day after 2 nights who granted me bail and told me to not fuck with the wrong person but was generally affable and polite.
USo you’re saying if I can and start beating you and break your finger in the process – you are not being attacked or not sure if this is threat to life and tus can’t defend yourself?UBrother/sister the word of the law and its practise is wildly different.
I have a friend still in jail after 4 months for beating a cop after a cop broke his index finger at a traffic stop.UThe bottom line is that you need to respect the law of the land.
If a traffic cop stops you – you stop.
If he’s asking for papers you show those papers or politely inform that you don’t have them (if that’s the case)A cop can fuck your life up in such beautiful ways that you can’t imagine.
You can file complaints with his police station, to the district superintendent of police and also file a case in court – in all these cases you will have to face content harassment and spend shit tons of money and will likely not see a satisfying resolution.
Source – I accidentally left the brake at a redlight and the car rolled into the car in front which was of a judge. There was an attempt to murder fir against me and I had to spend about 8 lakhs (in lawyer fee and bribes to cops) and spend 2 days at a police lockup to save my ass in which case the cops were supportive. The judge was an absolute dick because when I got out of the car to apologise he abused me and without thinking much I abused him back.
