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SYes in the civil matters such as divorce but in criminal matters – it may or may not work depending on the case. You can choose to share with wife’s side family and her friends/coworkers so that she is branded as a cheater and never finds a good mate.SMarriage is never easy bro. No where, it’s the options provided by law and undue misuse rampant in India.
You never know when it will change in Phillipines and things go to shit. But before it does – bag your cutie and enjoy marriage life
SYour first sentence is enough to guilt trap you and make you pay half of all your assets.Historically, women have also enjoyed a lot of benefits and protections from men especially Hindu Culture. Now, the culture might have degraded but for the most part it was good.
I would suggest stop psychoanalysis of your future divorce. You can file NIW green card and get it approved so now there is a huge waiting period because people are so many from india. So you leave india and go to Philippines and find a wife. You can use your wife quota and get GC immediately.
There are no divorces in Phillipines so you are good there so you live there for 5 years and bond with wife and then head to US to start a family.
Go for a strategy of gains and not mitigating losses !
SYeah…even small arguments – call them up. Even her distant relatives. It is a tried and tested method.SBring her mother into petty attacks and immediately call her father to report her behaviour. Do it in odd hours like midnight. Samajh aayega unkoSI would go full throttle on petty attacks on your SIL and see how she reacts. She will either understand the game and stopped doing what she is doing OR she will leave. Like I said either way – You guys will get permanent relief.Chant Hanuman Chalisa non-stop if you are Hindu.
SYou forgot to mention the main thing here. What does SIL’s father do and if he is in their life. Most issues stem from kids being raised by toxic parents or no parents so all they learn is to complain on other people and keep demanding things.This behavior is a veil to their own shortcomings and time and again I have seen this happening in relationships even non matrimonial ones.
It’s really up to your brother. Is he not a tough guy ?
Sorry for your troubles – I have mostly given up myself saving other weak people in family, people sometimes need such drama to be engaged into something and pass life since they don’t have a meaningful goal in their own life. This applies to all people be it right or wrong. We should encourage family members to give up such persistent drama and move on.
I did it myself so it was painful in the beginning but I got over it.
SPeople preserve what they care about. You are a good fit in their family since you also care about stuff.Legally stuff is yours. Good luck 🍀
SWhy would you marry someone older than you ? Females never respect men younger than them. There are exceptions for sure but most middle class women hate men younger than them.SHe is right about you not having a meaningful life goal or as we say business. Why do you care so much online debates ?
