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UBased on what you said, you wonāt owe anything to her since she is earning in the same ballpark as you.
You canāt annul the marriage.
UAnyways. Hereās the key part: A will can always be changed by the person who wrote it. A property registration can only be changed by the person who owns the property.UYou did not choose onetime alimony payment to the wife?
The child support you have to give till heās 18 or the girl gets married or she finds a job. I hate that about Indian laws that itās fatherās responsibility till the girl gets married.UYour parents gave you life. They raised you and gave you some morals (not all from the looks of it). Be grateful for that. As for properties and stuff- Yes itās nice to cry in a Mercedes than on a street, but end of the day itās still crying. Your most important assets is your family. Money comes and goes. Be thankful and apologize to the fam. And move on.UThe land has to be non-partitioned for 4 generations and passed on as inheritance after death to be considered ancestral property. At any point, if the land was partitioned or willed, it becomes self acquired property of the person. Check how the land was inherited. If it was inherited after the death, then you have to check the other generations. Consult a lawyer. In India, law is what you argue and how much you pay the judge anyways unlike western countries. Itās not absolute.UNAL.From what Iāve read and have seen- ancestral property that has been partitioned and registered in your fatherās name is his self acquired property. Itās his choice on what to do with it. You can challenge this in court, but you will waste money and your parentās money.
As for his own acquired property, you have no rights either. Itās his choice here too.
You should consult an attorney to verify this.
UIf your wife files for DV and other stuff in USA, She LOSES her right to get those in Indian court since she accepted US courtās judgement. Hereās where things work for you- USA is gender neutral. And NEED proof of DV instead of taking a womanās statement and making you pay. Your divorce will also be cheaper if your marriage is short. Make sure you get your divorce here.UYes- it is his property. He can do what he wants based on Indian law. But do it before divorce begins so that court doesnāt see it as asset transfer/ hiding.UNALThe issue is not an all cash deal. The issue is showing source of the funds. You can always show on the stamp paper that you sold it for less. You just pocket the difference and make it white through hawala. Plenty of people in India do this. Just ask your buyer to show source of funds for the lower amount. Most people are able to show this.
UYour new āgrand momā wonāt have any rights to your grand fatherās property as long as there is a will and the property is transferred to his Heirs already.However, when he passes away, your ānew grand momā will have rights to demand maintenance from your fathers and uncles based on your lifestyles.
Why not avoid all this and get him a paid companion? Each to their own
UNAL. Speak with a lawyer.Have recordings of your SILās harassment of the family. And harassing you for money. Considering your brother is already living separately, ask your father to make your mother owner of the house and say your brother has no share. He can also make you an owner (provided youāre not a son too). He can also make a will to show that your brother has no share. Collect evidence of no Dowry. After that, if your SIL comes with a fake cases- let her. Make her roam courts. Let her waste time. Let your brother file for divorce and if the children are old enough, you can fight for custody on mental issues of SIL. Good luck.
UNALConsult a lawyer. She is threatening with false cases and when things do not go her way, she will do it. She will include everyone in the family.
Firstly ask your brother to not live with you or your parents.
Secondly, collect proof that no Dowry was exchanged.
Thirdly, ask him to quit his job for a Lower paying one, and if he has assets move it to your or your momās name.
Fourthly, make the girl work. Even if itās for 1 week- show that she can earn.After youāve done these- you can wait. Or be civil and ask for a mutual divorce. Let someone who knows both mediate this- and let the girl know that if she files fake cases her life is done because society wonāt accept her. Once she understands it, you can settle and get out.
If you are sure she is going to file a fake case, some lawyers suggest your mom to file a DV. I would not recommend it because it will portray your family in a bad light.
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