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January 18, 2025 at 3:37 am in reply to: Seeking Legal Advice: How to Safeguard Myself and My Family, and Navigate Divorce Proceedings #72078UUrbanranjan8949
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January 18, 2025 at 3:37 amNAL.Unfortunately you can not legally protect yourself if she decides to file a false case. What you can do is work with a lawyer and make the damage minimal. Go to a senior lawyer who is practicing in high court.
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January 17, 2025 at 8:34 pmThe girl filed a fake case and lost. Most fake cases are piled to pressurize husband to settle for higher alimony than what the court would give her.You can choose to be with a woman who will blackmail or not. Thatâs your choice.
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January 15, 2025 at 7:51 pmFacts.January 15, 2025 at 5:55 am in reply to: Husband accusing me of being male to avoid returning my gold pt 2 #73968UUrbanranjan8949
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January 15, 2025 at 5:55 amYou actually need to file a 498a under cruelty. Go to your lawyer. The section is for women like you. Use the letters he sent and ask police to file the case.January 15, 2025 at 5:29 am in reply to: Husband accusing me of being a male to avoid returning my gold that he stole. #75168UUrbanranjan8949
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January 15, 2025 at 5:29 amAtul committed suicide after repeated harassment. They even filed a fake murder case on him, which the wife took back. If youâre questioning why his letter was that way, itâs because he became mentally ill after traveling from Bangalore to wherever that case was over 120 times in a span of 2-3 years. Most of his letter was a commentary or evidences. Some parts were disturbing- or portray a harsh reality, but the intent was to show his side of the story, which he did. He deserves justice.January 15, 2025 at 5:22 am in reply to: Husband accusing me of being a male to avoid returning my gold that he stole. #75140UUrbanranjan8949
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January 15, 2025 at 5:22 amYou can file a case (ask a lawyer about the section) to return your streedhan or tell him you will ask for alimony. Itâs illegal for him to keep it.Your husbandâs letter is hilarious. If a judge accepts it, Iâll ROFL in front of the judge. I needed that joke.
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January 14, 2025 at 9:07 pmNALAnxiety can be helped with medicines and you can get medical help.
I do not know where you live, but big cities have a lot of sales positions open. They make anywhere between 5-15k/month plus bonuses.
Alternatively, If you did not waive your right to alimony, you can request support based on crpc 125. Especially if you have no means since he is still harassing you. If you have documented evidence, you can file for defamation. Hope you can stand on your feet. You can consult a lawyer.
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January 14, 2025 at 7:16 pmFacts. His book is available for free online. On his MRA website.UUrbanranjan8949
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January 14, 2025 at 7:15 pmI donât understand your question. If your question is why can the husbandâs mom file a case on the wife here- She should not. But thatâs the only fake case they can file from a dv standpoint on the wife. Other cases like stealing can also be filed, but thatâs a gender neutral case.If your question is why can she file against the wife? If the husbandâs mom was abused, the law gives her similar protection as the wife. Not the same. Similar.
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January 14, 2025 at 7:05 pmUUrbanranjan8949
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January 14, 2025 at 7:00 pmTheyâre demanding 8 lakhs for her living expenses since she wants a divorce. No where in the post has it been mentioned that she was harassed for dowry prior. Only that she was mistreated. 8 lakhs is not same as Dowry harassment. It is harassment. As I said before, no court will give it to them as wife is responsibility of husband.You claim sheâs going to die- no where in the write up has it been said that she was beat up or violence was committed on her. How are you inferring her death from a financial mistreatment? So your money is cut off and you assume youâre going to die? By your logic every time someone loses a job, theyâre dead. Your biased mentality and prejudices without comprehension of the severity of a fake case is not what is needed.
As I said before- sheâs being harassed, she can file for maintenance and a divorce based on mental cruelty and she will get alimony provided there is difference in assets/ standard of living âŠetc. Alternatively, if she just wants to be free of the guy, she can propose mutual divorce and say the guy wonât owe her anything to get rid off him quickly. Those are two fair options.
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January 14, 2025 at 6:21 pmThis is the mentality thatâs keeping the country in the crapper.
A guy can not file fake cases such as 498a. Maybe his mom can file a fake DV, but thatâs about it. And yes, when a girl goes to a lawyer, most of them do it to get an upper hand since only a wife/woman can file dowry harassment, unnatural sex, and rape. No where I said donât get justice. A normal divorce proceeding would also give her alimony.Instead of making inflammatory statements, you should see and comprehend what was said.
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January 14, 2025 at 5:08 pmI didnât say this was a fake case. In case you are not upto date with whatâs happening, when the woman goes to the lawyer, he will make her file a bunch of fake cases. Thatâs what I told to refrain from.UUrbanranjan8949
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January 14, 2025 at 4:16 pmNALShe does not need to pay 8 lakhs for staying in the in-laws house.
Legal agreements before the wedding are generally not held up in courts in India. Your friend can initiate divorce- and can demonstrate that other person was cruel if she has documented evidence. Court will award her alimony and maintenance if she is significantly dependent on the husband.
Alternatively, your friend can ask the husband for mutual divorce. Most husbands will give you a divorce if you say no alimony.
Get with a lawyer. No point in filing fake cases and ruining lives of 2 families.
January 13, 2025 at 7:14 pm in reply to: Seeking help for a friend living in Canada going through a tough divorce decision #74892UUrbanranjan8949
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January 13, 2025 at 7:14 pmCanada is not a reciprocating territory for India for divorces. So a divorce in Canada is not valid in India. If itâs a mutual divorce, as long as certain verbiage is in it, I think you can get it legalized in India. -
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