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SI mean I don’t love the government but I can understand where it is coming from
Thankyou for your kind words boss
SThankyou for pointing that out.But I ain’t digging his profile to see what’s he’s upto. I’m simply answering to whatever info he has shared in the post.
SCommen 2 –The courts operate from the principal standpoint that any person(s) should become destitute.
The country want to pay for the food and shelter and clothing and medical care for as few people as possible – thus alimony.
Instead of jumping onto the latest woman bashing trend – or whatever else your bubble of information tells you to bash – actually simply Google and look at cases.
There are so many cases where men too have gotten alimony.More importantly working women – where husband’s who are the primary earner – get like 10% alimony on average (exceptions exist ofcourse) to enable them to have a roof over their head. Not because courts or laws are sexist or that women are weak or that women as assholes – it is because the government hates you irrespective of gender and doesn’t want to pay for your shit. The law will force someone else to bear the brunt of this.
The larger problem is that lawyers have essentially monetized domestic violence laws and a small fraction of women have fucked the law so hard that every woman has to hear shit because of it. Like how all men have to hear abiut rapists and perverts. Although % wise creepy men is far more common in every socio-economic strata whereas women who take undue advantage of the law are concentrated at the top half of the socio-economic privilege pyramid.
SThe courts operate from the principal standpoint that any person(s) should become destitute.The country want to pay for the food and shelter and clothing and medical care for as few people as possible – thus alimony.
Instead of jumping onto the latest woman bashing trend – or whatever else your bubble of information tells you to bash – actually simply Google and look at cases.
There are so many cases where men too have gotten alimony.More importantly working women – where husband’s who are the primary earner – get like 10% alimony on average (exceptions exist ofcourse) to enable them to have a roof over their head. Not because courts or laws or sexist or that women are weak or that women as assholes – it is because the government hates you irrespective of gender and doesn’t want to pay for your shit. The law will force someone else to bear the brunt of this.
The larger problem is that lawyers have essentially monetized domestic violence laws to make money and a small fraction of women have fucked the law so hard that every woman has to hear shit because of it. Like how all men have to hear abiut rapists and perverts. Although % wise creepy men is far more common in every socio-economic strata whereas women who take undue advantage of the law are concentrated at the top half of the socio-economic privilege pyramid.
SIn short – YESLong answer –
Despite the recent virtue signaling and hate against women the courts are not that sexist.
If your wife is a non-working member as you state, she is entitled to have similar “quality of life” as she did during marriage and she is entitled to have a roof over her head.The courts operate from raw standpoint that no citizen should become destitute and also reduce the governments expenditure and involvement In providing food and shelter to any citizen if it can be avoided.
So she will be entitled to alimony (yes even if she is the one who cheats or is the cruel person and cause of the divorce or fuck that – she will get alimony even if she’s the one who has filed for divorce)
Alimony, unless you’re an HNI or UHNI or some exceptional circumstances, is 20-30% of your net take home salary after taxes if the wife is not a working member.
There are also “one time settlements” where you pay once and no monthly (inflation adjusted) payments.You have to now provide her a roof over her head if you have more than one house or provide her essentially with rent money.
Your house that is bought by you by your money is now a joint asset because you’re married.
S1) He won’t agree to you mentioning this on the agreement.2) you also have to deduct tds do in cash that won’t be possible. Which attracts income tax authorities.
3) you can’t deposit this in bank without a pan card which again means informing the income tax authorities that you are generating cash.
4) it is straight up illegal to take such amounts to cash.
SA legal notice won’t help, these companies have teams of lawyers for precisely this purpose.
It is more cumbersome for you to fight the case that it is for them.You should write an email and raise a complaint and get a reference number for the complaint.
Use the escalatipn matrix provided at both websites to escalate to a nodal officer or an ombudsman.
Paralelly you can file a consumer complaint by yourself and fight it by yourself.
SYou can’t immune yourself.And people need to stop asking the same question everyday. There is such a post literally everyday here.
Spend two minutes going through the subreddit pliz.
SGet a part time job while you continue to live there. Find means of financial independence first.They owe you nothing after you’ve turned 16 as per prevailing law.
SNope. He’s An adult who can do whatever he wants with his money.If he denies you shelter, food, access to Healthcare or is abusing you physically then you can approach the cops.
In this case you can ask your relatives, extended family, neighbors and friends to talk some sense to your father or study harder and get a government college (with low fees) or scholarship
SVisit and lawyer. Ask for fee upfront. Ask for and consult and consultation chargers.I would recommend using cheque bounce as a strategy as that has the quickest resolution of under 1 year. Every thing else will take 5+ years – like a civil suit, violent threats, etc
SBrother/sister you’re so ignorant of the law. You need a lawyers consult to be honest.Fill up the cheque for the balance amount + interest. Fill it up and deposit.
Cheque will either clear – great you got your money back.
Cheque will bounce – you can file a case for cheque bounce which generally gets a resolution in under a year.Do note that if he does genuinely not have the money to give or assets to liquidate – he will face jailtime and that’s the outcome now. His jailtime means you don’t get you money back as the jailtime is the punishment.
