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PHe could have installed some app to spy on her in her phone. Let her buy a basic phone with a different sim and contact you or lawyer that she has to hire. Let her try to collect the evidence of him cheating in the form of photographs, messages, videos, hotel bookings, etc.
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PYou can file for a contested divorce case on the grounds of mental & emotional cruelty. Yes, her medical records, preserve them, they will help you to prove the cruelty that is perpetrated on you. Record the calls whenever anyone threatens you. [https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/](https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/)If she attempts suicide or commits suicide, you may have to face some charges, but you have to fight your way out of it. If you feel you are threatened, you can also approach nearby police station and report. So keep your calls recorded.
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PYour uncle needs some counselling or meditation sessions to focus on himself. He needs to find a job before he thinks of divorce or child custody. Let him focus on himself first and then other things.Once he has a job he can ask for child custody or visitation rights. [https://divorcebylaw.com/child-custody/](https://divorcebylaw.com/child-custody/)
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PMutual Consent divorce is what she has to apply and get the order from the court. there is non Out of Court settlement for Divorce. Both have to discuss and agree on the terms and conditions of the separation first. If he is also earning there is no question of alimony or maintenance that your sister has to give him. Once they are in consensus with the terms of divorce, a joint petition to be filed before the court. The detailed procedure is as follows: [https://divorcebylaw.com/mutual-divorce-lawyer-in-bengaluru/](https://divorcebylaw.com/mutual-divorce-lawyer-in-bengaluru/)If her husband doesn’t agree for the same, she can apply for contested divorce which may take longer time to get settled. [https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/](https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/)
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PFirst Scenario:There is no question of custody of children. The children above 18 years can decide where they want to live. Regarding alimony there is no fixed rule or formula that puts forth certain conditions to calculate the alimony. The court considers that particular case and assets & liabilities of both the spouses while deciding the case.
the wife who is not earning currently, has no savings in liquid form, has only a property where she lives with her children, has no rental income either, who has to take care of 18+ years if they are still studying or yet to get employed…. definitely has no means to sustain. She will definitely be given alimony. Read here for some more details
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Wife who is still earning and properties bought by her, if she demands for alimony or maintenance under different provisions – the assets & liabilities of both the spouses are considered by the court before deciding whether husband has to pay alimony or maintenance.
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PFor not following the court order, you could file a contempt case on your wife. For this you need to get the dates from when she started deviating from the court order.Else, you can file a fresh petition as your daughter turning 14, where you can have a fresh custody terms & conditions. Ask for joint custody and if possible stay in the same area so that you can practically implement the joint custody arrangements. [https://divorcebylaw.com/who-gets-custody-of-the-child-in-a-divorce-in-india/](https://divorcebylaw.com/who-gets-custody-of-the-child-in-a-divorce-in-india/)
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PIf you feel that she had no reasonable excuse to leave you, you can file a Restitution of Conjugal Rights case, where you are asking her to come back to you. You can find the details here [https://divorcebylaw.com/restitution-of-conjugal-rights/](https://divorcebylaw.com/restitution-of-conjugal-rights/)As your child is too young to be with father, it is not advisable to seek child custody, but you can ask for visitation rights [https://divorcebylaw.com/child-custody/](https://divorcebylaw.com/child-custody/)
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PFile a maintenance case asking him to pay maintenance that covers EMI amount or little over that. If the court orders the same, he will have a legal order to pay you that money. At present he has nothing binding on him to be like that. You can ask for maintenance without seeking divorce. [https://divorcebylaw.com/maintenance/](https://divorcebylaw.com/maintenance/)You can also file Restitution of Conjugal Rights case where you are asking him to get back to you. [https://divorcebylaw.com/restitution-of-conjugal-rights/](https://divorcebylaw.com/restitution-of-conjugal-rights/)
If you feel it is not worth living with him, file a Contested Divorce case on the ground of financial and emotional cruelty. [https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/](https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/)
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PYou have gone through a lot in your marriage. This is not normal for any man to take advantage of you, he has gone too far. Don’t believe in his sorry, he doesn’t mean it. even if he mean, he will not correct his behavior in future.File a contested divorce on the ground of adultery, as he is living in adultery with multiple women. [https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/](https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/)
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PThe Court hall where it is assigned will be under a particular judge or judges (if it’s a division bench). The same judge would hear the matter, it changes only when there is transfer of judges or sometimes if the matter is transferred from one court to another for any technical reason.PStop her from work. Don’t have to give any reason. She may harm your parents, because she came inside the house with her sister. She can bring in more people to do something bad.You can complain to the police only if there is a direct evidence where the money is seen in her hand in the footage.
Even if you complain, she will deny or she’ll put some atrocities case on your parents. Worst she may do self harm and blame your parents to be the reason. Giving a police complaint could turn ugly.
Your parents can ask her to pay back the money in small instalments, which she will not pay. Let them try asking.
IF your parents feel they can’t forget about the 36K, they have to be very very careful about her coming into their property. It could be extreme steps like asking neighbor or a relative in the house while she’s in the house or after securing all the valuables, parents going out of the house until she finishes or more security cameras in place.
PThe adultery was prior to the marriage, so that shouldn’t be an issue. File a Restitution of Conjugal Rights case and ask her to come back to you. [https://divorcebylaw.com/restitution-of-conjugal-rights/](https://divorcebylaw.com/restitution-of-conjugal-rights/)In the mediation ask her what she wants, not what her family and lawyer wants. Make sure her family and lawyer do not participate in the mediation.
If reconciliation doesn’t work, go for Mutual Consent Divorce and close the matter. In mutual divorce the parties decide on the terms and conditions that include alimony also. You talk to her through mediation (again not her lawyer/ family), who should be in a position to understand your financial position and convince her to agree for a nominal amount. [https://divorcebylaw.com/mutual-divorce-lawyer-in-bengaluru/](https://divorcebylaw.com/mutual-divorce-lawyer-in-bengaluru/)
If she still insists on Contested Divorce, the alimony & maintenance is decided by the court after considering the assets & liabilities of both the parties. [https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/](https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/)
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PIn that case every time there is physical abuse take her to the hospital and ask them to register as MLC. Don’t tell her much about it. Tell her you are taking her for treatment.PYour brother and parents can file counter cases on her. What she’s doing is to defame the family. Also, your mother can also file domestic violence case on her (it is an extreme case of cruelty against husband).Since your name is not in the FIR, you don’t have to do anything. But others need to take bail. [https://divorcebylaw.com/cruelty-against-husband/](https://divorcebylaw.com/cruelty-against-husband/)
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PCongratulations that you have succeeded in creating wealth for yourself & for your family. Now that you have money, work on your self. You don’t need CA or Lawyer right now, but a good counsellor. There is no need to be anxious about something unknown. Once you discover yourself, you will be enlightened to choose the right life partner. So, first work on your self and identify what kind of personality your are. When you are choosing the life partner, be open about who you are and openly express all your positives as well as negatives & most importantly your expectations from the marriage. and aske her also to be open about herself. Learn not to be judgmental, rather use an open approach to talk to people and understand them. Look life positively rather being a critic of everything around. With all this, you will be able to look at life differently.Choose the life partner based on the compatibility rather status, education or such other materialistic things. Take all the time it takes to decide. Don’t start off with the notion that all the women out there, are looking for taking advantage of you. If you are in that mindset, think that all the girls out there are also anxious about getting burnt alive by their future husbands & in laws in the name of Dowry. This isn’t the case in reality.
the marriage under Hindu Marriage Act is a sacrament, it cannot be treated as a contract between 2 people.
