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PItās usually difficult to prove that it was self defence, especially if you beat up someone with no prior record, or injure them more than necessary for defense, it usually doesnāt work in your favour.
So beat them up & run, donāt get involved in the legalities.
PReminds me of the time when public in Mumbai local trains started throwing transgenderās out of running trains. Transgenderās stopped catching these trains & also because these were serious cases where you canāt catch anyone, RPF and authorities started strictly stopping transgenderās from doing their thing on railway stations.Not suggesting you to do all this, but just giving you an example of what it takes for authorities come handle these situations.
PNALThe best way out of this is to take the offensive approach.
1. Get a lawyer, file a case for threatening, physical violence, harassment, extortion, fraud against the girl and her family. Send a legal notice.
2. Write a letter to the DCP & commissioner stating that you were harassed by the local police & forced to write a letter without listening to his side.
3. Get an anticipatory bail because right after you do this, the girl is going to file a case against you. Anticipatory bail will make sure no one goes to jail.
4. Gathering all evidences that show that it was mutual, after the break up if youāve info of her talking to other guys, or her family trying to get her married to others, gather all of it which shows they mutually separated.
5. Arrange a settlement meeting with both parties. Share all the evidences. Sign an affidavit which says you separated mutually, you (or your family) wonāt harass or reach each other in future.Mostly it stops as soon as they see a legal notice. But you still need to prepare everything till step 4.
PCyber complaint or FIR is the only option. But may be easier to warn him or threaten him about sending a message to his workplace or his parents. Working professionals have higher stakes, itās easier to control them that wayPIf youāre worried from a digital fraud perspective – change the UPI ID and deactivate the previous one. Youāll use okicici instead of oksbi or whatever. One canāt get bank details from UPI ID no matter what.if the lawyer thinks he can do anything with a digital trace, he cant. You can say you never met him.
if seem to have something at stake here, hence overthinking it. So the question is, what are you hiding? You worried that heās informing someone about your visit? Or building info about you? Why are you paranoid?
PNALIrrespective of religion, I do not recommend anyone to get married without both families backing you because when things get tough, itās the family and their years of connections & community that helps you out.
But you asked for an advice, so here it is:
Long term solution:
Become independent, start earning, move to a different city, keep convincing your parents somehow. Their chances of trusting you increases when they see you be more responsible & independent. If at the end they still donāt agree, just get married, they canāt control adults. Youāll be away
Short term solution: my neighbour did this
run. Your parents will be ashamed & fight with each other. But yall will get to be together. You can come back in a few years when things settle down. At that point parents usually are just tired and accept you. In case they donāt, youāve to live away.
PNALConsult a different lawyer who specialises in RERA cases. Also, as per the post, youāre the owner of that property. Registration and all formalities done. Is that correct?
If the property is already in your name, thereās no one to blame here unless it was illegal to sell such properties at the time of sale. It even got registered so I assume it was not illegal at the time of sale.
Iām looking at it like this – I bought a land 15 years ago, Iād the option to build a house on it or sell it, I did neither for xyz reasons and now I demand a refund from the seller who sold it 15 years ago. Thereās a very slim chance of winning this. Your lawyer probably already knows this but heās still doing it cuz heās getting paid.
PScam. Court never calls lol. If court has to summon you, you get a legal notice at your home with case id, FIR etc which you can verify online.PYouād be surprised how much can change with an optimistic outlook and following the right process.PNAL1. Get a lawyer
2. Write a letter (complaint) against the local police to the DSP & commissioner.
3. File a case with the local court stating that even after multiple intimations, no FIR was registered. The court will summon the officials to start investigation on priority.
4. Gather all evidence for the claims and submit a separate case for assault, planned murder, threat to kill, harassment against the accused.
5. Request for a fast track, because itās a womenās safety case the court may work on this on priority. Police may ask for 15 days for 1st draft, 1 month for further investigation.Case may go on for less than a year because the victims get justice if all evidences are provided, no hearsay.
PYou can become ultra rich my man. Gather the proofs and sue Airtel. You wonāt even have to go to court, Airtel will pay you crores to keep you quiet.PNAL17 yo sees a future, been there before.
even though itās childish love, i remember that precious chemical your brain makes and wouldāve fought for it if I were in your shoes. But at the end (10 years down the line) of it imo itās not worth all the trouble.
But again – you asked for a solution, here it is
Legally speaking –
Your parents consent on your behalf till youāre 18. So he has the upper hand, but he wonāt take any legal course unless heās really stupid. Ignoring all the trouble the guys family will have, you & your family will also have to jump through the same hoops.
Simplest solution –
Lay low till youāre 18. After that legally everyoneās in the clear
All the best, rooting for you
PPossible Legal Actions:1. Cheating (Section 415 & 420 of IPC) ā If a woman intentionally deceives a man by falsely promising marriage and taking money, it may be considered cheating or fraud. Section 420 (cheating and dishonestly inducing delivery of property) can apply if financial loss is involved.
2. Breach of Trust (Section 406 of IPC) ā If the man gave money as a form of trust, and she misused it, a case of criminal breach of trust may be filed.
3. Extortion (Section 383 of IPC) ā If the money was obtained through threats or coercion, it may amount to extortion.
4. Civil Suit for Recovery of Money ā If the money was given as a loan or gift under false pretenses, the man can file a civil suit to recover the amount.Challenges:
ā¢ If the money was given voluntarily, proving deception can be difficult.
ā¢ Courts often require strong evidence of fraud or malicious intent.
